I went out with a girl and we had an amazing time. It was so good that we ended up being intimate. She texted me several times saying how much she liked me and wanted to be with me. However, she never called me and everytime I asked her to go out again...she would cancel at the last minute. I tried calling her but she only answered once. A month went by and I finally decided to give up. I sent her one last text saying..."I'm confused. You say you like me but you haven't made an effort to call or see me. I'm not into games, so just let me know what's going on." She never responded. I really liked this girl.
I asked her a few weeks ago to go a wedding with me and she said yes. She even seemed excited about it. The wedding is this Saturday, but I'm sure I'll get stood up by her.
Why do people do this?
2006-11-15 09:38:21 · 7 answers · asked by no_butches 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some people enjoy playing games, others are just confused and don't know what they really want. Stop wasting your time chasing her, and spend this energy on finding someone who knows what they want, and don't want to play the mind games.
Good Luck...stop wasting your energy on her, there are tons of wonderful women out there, and some of them are looking for someone just like you.
2006-11-15 09:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Stephie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people do this because they are afraid of what would/ could happen. some people don't know if they're doing the right thing by going out with someone. she probably liked you at the beginning but she probably stopped later. what you did wrong was you asked her to marry you. she might get cold feet and run away. you probably liked her alot but maybe she liked you a little. if she was doing this stuff when you two were dating why would you wanna marry her?
2006-11-15 17:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by scholargurl911 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take the hint and leave this little girl alone. Clearly she doesnt want to be with you. Dont push it any further before something even worse happens and you get even more hurt.
2006-11-15 17:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
May be shes not feeling the same way about u Maybe she thinks shes like that and shes not. I'm not like that but tons of my friends are and I'm cool wit dat. Talk to her
2006-11-15 17:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by :) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she isn't as into you as you thought and she's trying not to hurt you. Aperently she's doing a bad job of leting you down slowly. Try talking ot her about it. Face to Face.
2006-11-15 17:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by ichigo_li2 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
cuz theyre dumb.
she was probably toying with u. if not, shes either really busy or forgetful.
forget abvout her & find a grl that'll treat u with respect.
2006-11-15 17:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
b/c she is a jerk
2006-11-15 17:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋