well, i really like this guy. and idk if he likes me or not. He flirts with me all the time and calls me like everyday. he asked me to go out with him last friday and then he backed out total last minute. it was horrible. he had a supposidly tournament...do u think he still likes me?
2006-11-15 09:36:36 · 26 answers · asked by Amber M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well not really tournament... he was playing for money lol and he picked that over me! after we made plans... i think thats rude
2006-11-15 09:40:02 · update #1
I think he still likes you, but he probably chickened out. The tournament COULD have been true...but... The guy could have met another girl, also. I'd suggest YOU asking him to go out some other time, and see what happens. If he says no, just shrug it off, sort of, "Okay, just thought it'd be fun." If he says yes, well then.... Good luck, girlie!!! ;)
2006-11-15 09:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok first off dont freak out if a guy changes his plans the last minute, I've learned to get use to it. Especially if you are not yet an "Item" with this guy. Yeah he still likes you, just that he doesnt put you way up there, you shouldnt either. Take it slow, act like it didnt matter much to you because you also had other stuff come up. I guess then only time will tell.
2006-11-15 09:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by PuRe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Madame,
Hell no. To begin with, he's probably as offended by your grammar as I am. Assuming he can get beyond that, we are men. We have testosterone, and we will put tournaments of any type before you. Know this. Learn this. Abide and respect this. The sooner you realize this, the more likely you are to understand your role in a relationship. Also, know that we hate holding purses at shopping malls while you run in to the restroom. IT'S AWKWARD.
Hope this helps,
Pianoguy
2006-11-15 09:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by pianoguy05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason, he got cold feet and backed out at the last minute, which is definitely rude and inconsiderate. However, he sounds immature, and is probably not the right guy for you. But if you really like him and want to give him a second chance, I'd first insist that he apologize for backing out at the last minute without a good excuse. If he ever does it again, that's your cue to say, "goodbye forever".
2006-11-15 09:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok there is a very easy way to find out if he likes you but you have to do it exactly as I say.
Step 1 pick up the telephone
Step 2 dial his number
Step 3 ask if you may speak to him
Step 4 (only after he is on the phone) ask him "Do you like me"?
2006-11-15 09:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he likes you but you know what honey. Life happens. Things come up in our lives. Life doesn't stop just because he likes you or you like him. He probably forgot about the tournament, but if a guy does all that, he likes you.
2006-11-15 09:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by PisceKween 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him....the blokes shouldn't just be the one's to make the first move...if you make an arrangement again and he says that he as another tournament then why don't you ask him if you could go watch
2006-11-15 09:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea he does, he was just scared that you'd say no. Really us guys are chickens no matter how manly we act. lol, it took me a freakin year to ask this girl out, thats when i found out she liked me all along!
2006-11-15 09:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Like totally?
2006-11-15 09:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he likes you. he either realy did have a tounament. or he got realy nervous to see you and he backed out. just give him an other chance to ask you out a gain. im sure he was nervous though
2006-11-15 09:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋