she wants to fk, but still says that we should not get back together. Whats with this goofy chic? Of course, since Im a guy I fk her, but now its starting to really piss me off. I would really like to get back with her. What should I do?
2006-11-15 09:02:18 · 23 answers · asked by BWLJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave....she is using you until she finds someone else...you need to do the same...
2006-11-15 09:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mikey ~ The Defender of Myrth 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should seek sex elsewhere and maybe that will either have her running back into your arms, or running further away.
You don't sound like a nice guy. You sound like women are only good for fking! Could be why she left you.
She doesn't want back with you, because there alot more guys out there that fk really good, and she comes to you when their all taken up!
2006-11-15 17:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her no more Sex unless you are "commited."
Your in the perfect spot to reverse basically every other single relationship were the guy would still want to "fk"
So Go ahead and do what women have been doing since the begginning of time.
2006-11-15 17:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by mikey_guinto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave her alone. She is probably dating men she doesn't feel comfortable being intimate with, but as soon as she finds someone she can trust, then you'll be a memory.
This game she's playing is no different than the one a lot of men play. Either way it's wrong. However, you're the only one who can say no more.
You say you want to get back with her, but she'll never get back with you if she knows she can date whom she chooses and still have you as her booty call. Why should she? She's living the life she wants to. She's able to be wined and dined by men of her choice, and still get good sex from her on ex on the side.
I don't mean to be hurtful with my words, but I want you to truly understand what's going on here. Be honest with yourself about the situation. It's not that she can't make up her mind. Her mind was made up when she ended it with you. She just wants to do things on her terms.
2006-11-15 17:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by CafeAuLait 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!!! She is using you for sex. I know that sound funny... a girl using a guy for sex, but that is exactly what is happening. She is playing with your emotions. She knows you still care and she wants to be free to play the field, but she doesnt want to be alone.
Stop taking her calls and move on. The quicker you do this...
the quicker you will grieve your relationship loss and find a new girl to "fk".
Good luck
2006-11-15 17:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a man you should know shes just playing you and getting what she needs off you with out any strings attached,,,,its called friends with benefits and you know this. Why are you settling for a chic like her when there are so many more girls out there that will love you and respect you and repsect herself?? I wouldnt even waste my time doing her,,,shes playing you and she knows shes got it like that becasue you are letting her play you. Get rid of her ***.
2006-11-15 17:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she only wants you for sex she doesn't want a relationship i would if i were you dont fk her anymore find someone who wants to be with you not fk you.
2006-11-15 17:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by lmm32193@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although it seems like you can satisfy her physicaly, you are probably not emorionally, and she does not want to get back into that. she may also have her interests elsewhere. you may want to try and tend to her needs, find ot what she wasnt gettting from your relationship... why did you guys break up? everyone ends it for a reason.. thats the reason she probably still doesnt wanna be withyou.
2006-11-15 17:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by lilnuttbutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to have sex but no bf. As a guy I would think you can understand that. You still have feelings for her so you should stop f'ing her. Your only going to make yourself feel worse at the end.
2006-11-15 17:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you want to stop what you are doing cause as a female you need to remember we are the lock and your the key and we need the key to open the door until it's time to get a new one. Braddah she's making you her b***h. Just rid of her.find a new girl. you don't need that.unless you what to be that....
2006-11-15 17:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by rastaj4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she charge? i am sorry i had to say that... my freind your being used, and i am not very happy with this, and neither shoud u.
why would u want to get back with a girl that is trying to change u into her **** buddy??? just get this over with, and move on... thats the only right thing u should do.
great luck
2006-11-15 17:07:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋