What can i do to be happy, i feel i want more out of life. I feel bored? WHat to do plz
2006-11-15 08:59:16 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Aaw sweetie!! I'm so sorry to hear that! I've actually dealt with both. Be strong...Losing my mother was the hardest thing i ever dealt with. It's not a pain that will ever go away. And being raped was the next. I found that praying and focusing on other things in life helps to ease the pain. I don't know if you believe in god, but i found him to be my friend in the time of need. I talked to him often. Also, go to a counselor. Most people think you are crazy if you have to go to a counselor to talk about your problems, but youre not. You can tell them things you can't express to others. That also made me feel better. Time heals wounds, but honestly i can say its been 9 yrs since my mom passed and I still feel hurt from that. And a yr since i was raped and i'm dealing, taking it a day at a time. You do the same. I pray that god heals your wounds and gives you joy. Keep your head up!
2006-11-15 09:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to mourn and heal before you go worrying about getting happy and wanting more out of life. Go to a rape counselor. They will help you to deal with the rape and that will help you to deal with the loss of your mother.
2006-11-15 17:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to therapy, darling. Join some support groups. Be with your family and friends. And for God's sake report the rape if you haven't already!
2006-11-15 17:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by chelleedub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to call a rape hot line and talk to a counselor, NOW..... Sorry for your loss and for what has happened to you..God Bless.....
2006-11-15 17:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by P-Nut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your mom...That sucks! I was rapped also.But my mom is not dead...I say talk to your friends about it... Or theripy.
2006-11-15 17:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by Skylar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to go and see a doctor first
2006-11-15 17:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jinha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look up SASCA they should be real helpful.
2006-11-15 17:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well id answer that but i dont know if your atheist :D
2006-11-15 17:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Monsters~♥ 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋