Me and my ex broke up like 6 months ago and now i am back with my daughters dad, but my ex keeps harssing me and calling my bf and trying to break us up....He is even buying things for my apartment that i just got ..What should I do?
2006-11-15 08:55:07 · 7 answers · asked by Cre 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely notify the police if there are problems, and do send back the items he got you if you can. But one thing you could do in the meantime is if he contacts you again, have your new man rip him a new one right then and there. There's something about another guy telling him off that scares many an ex. And it should do it. I've seen it work so well with many of my buddies' ex-boyfriends, ex-husbands, etc. that I highly recommend it. This is not a substitute for calling the cops, though, if he threatens your life or that of your current man.
2006-11-15 09:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-29 04:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him one more time, "If you don't leave me alone I will have you arrested". If he understands that and goes away, don't take a risk, still get a restraining order. Once he violates that, call the police.
2006-11-15 08:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should talk to him and tell him what y'all had is gone and that you is with someone else if he don't listen then call the police and tell them that he is harassing you.
2006-11-15 09:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by dachelle_cutie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to get a life and stay out of yours...call him a "home wrecker", maybe that would work?
2006-11-15 08:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
return the items--tell him under no further conditions will you tolerate his physicals or continued contacts...
esle you will take legal action... the first time he does so...file a police complaint,,,,
2006-11-15 08:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by cork 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think that you should tell him that you have a girlfriend so that he will think that you are gay and he will leave you alone and wont talk to you!!!!LOL sorry if i made you mad but i didnt mean to!
2006-11-15 08:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋