My boyfriend and i broke up for 4 1/2 months after being together for 9 months,, but we remained talking and neither of us dated anyone during our break up. we are now back together and have been so for a month. things are going great, the thing is ,he now wants my son and me to move in with him,, im nervous on doing this, but he assured me he would never throw me and my son out.
If i move in with him and i really want to am i making a huge mistake or should i go for it? I love this man with all my heart and soul and him and my boys are my universe,,,but i'm nervous also as i dont want to give up my apt then have things not work out and have no place to go. He owns his own home and i live in subsidized housing. Please advise People.
Thanks; Kimmie
2006-11-15 08:52:43 · 3 answers · asked by kimmie_o2004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow your heart. If you think it's right, it's right. It's natural to be nervous when making big decisions. I've been engaged and had a woman living in my home. Unfortunately, we grew apart and the relationship ended. When it did, I didn't throw her and her son out. I let her stay until she could find a place. I would hope that most men would do the same.
2006-11-15 08:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Frankie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kimmie listen to me on this one do not move in with a man unless you marry him. If a man wants to play house especially with you having a child he will marry you and give you a real commitment. If you move in with him he will either a.)never marry you or b) It will end and you will have to find a place to live and you will have to live by his standards. I've been there don't do it.
2006-11-15 08:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't rush things so quickly. You should date a couple more months and see how things are from there. You will never know how things will turn out, so my advice to you is wait and see how things go.
2006-11-15 08:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by Bee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋