My and my boyfriend of ten months just broke up a couple of months ago. I dumped him cuz my sister was crying every time she saw us together, and nothins more important then family, right? Anyway, I wasn't quite over him, but I wasn't showing anything, so they couldn't have known I was still hurting. I just heard that they are going out. I pretended to be happy for them, but really I am writhing inside. How could she do this? I kinda think it's my fault for not showing any emotion and for her not knowing she hurt me, but there is this. I talk about him all the time, so she could have guessed. I send him funny emails when I get them, and SHE IS MY SISTER. I never would have done this to her, and I know she is not me, but couldn't she see I was really hurt? I know I was somewhat insensitive when we were going out, but I did something about it. Maybe she is just trying to get me back? I don't know how to react, or what to do. Oh, yah. She is 13. He is 17.
2006-11-15 08:45:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My mom just found out. I dated him when he was 16 and I was 14. 2 years compared to 4. My mom already knows and I don't know what she is gonna do. She is my sister, and I couldn't hurt her like that. I know that makes me a *****, but I have spent the last 12 years protecting her, so why would I do what I have punched other people for?
2006-11-15 09:06:43 · update #1
First of all, why is your sister dating at 13? Why would your parents allow her to date someone that much older than she is?
Secondly, I don't agree with this situation and feel it is totally wrong. I am the youngest of 6. I have four sisters and my parents (mom especially) raised us to not become involved with anyone our siblings, relatives or friends used to be involved with because there are too many men out there to risk losing your family over. However, your sister, who is still a child doesn't seem to understand this concept.
It sounds as though it doesn't matter if you let them know you still cared or not, they would still have gone out. But ask yourself, do you really want someone who would become involved with your sister, let alone your little child sister. If he didn't have enough respect for you and how you may feel, then chica he's not worth crying any tears over or any heart break over.
Now your sister will always be your sister. I feel that you should talk to her and tell her how betrayed you feel. How would she feel if you did that to her? Somehow, your parents need to make her understand the value of family.
2006-11-15 08:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by CafeAuLait 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he got with her maybe hes not the guy that you wana be with i mean think about it 10 months then he with your sister same he cant be the guy that will make you happy if he did this also your sister maybe had a crush on him and once she got the oportunity she went for it im sorry your sis did this to u if it was me i would let them know how im feeling at least tell her. Because guys come and go and family is always family.
2006-11-15 16:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You chicks are crazy! Why would you two date the same guy your sisters for goodness sake you both need to dump him now especially your sister that is 13 why is she dating a seventeen year old. She should be grounded until she is 18 for that.
2006-11-15 16:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by Venus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.. if she is 13 and he is 17 there is a big problem .. bc not to get you worry but some teens when they hit around 17 like to well you know (boy+girl=-----> to the v ) and i am not saying that she is oing that but just to let you now..... and when you where going out and she started to cry tell her she really needs to just get over it bc she is way to young for him and i would be mad at him for going with someone so young and i am also not saying you should just walk away from him but tell him that he made sa qrong choice by going with her younger sister bc not only is she family but she is to young !! i think i have made my point
2006-11-15 16:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by Lyssa Marie. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just said you broke up. There must have been a reason why you broke up, or many reasons. It does not hurt you for your sister to date him. It's over for you, so stop obsessing. If this guy was important to you, you should have stayed with him!
2006-11-15 16:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw hell 2 tha naw, i would've been pissed the f*ck off. If my 14 year-old sis was f*ckin around wit my 17-year-old guy I'd b mad. Whoeva said the thing about revenge girl u betta do that cuz i'd trick on her *** 2
2006-11-15 16:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by waves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are your parents???? No 13 year old girl should be going out with a 17 year old boy! Do you really think he is going to be serious about her? How old are you???
2006-11-15 16:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by righteousrose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you let her get away with that!! Yes, family is important which is exactly why SHE should have gotten over it and moved on to someone else. Sweet Jesus. She got you good. Time for payback!
2006-11-15 16:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be so madd, you didn't find out from her? That's even worse. Tell her how you feel, if that doesn't work tell your parents that she's going out with a guy 4 years older than her! REVENGE!!!!
2006-11-15 16:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by nicolemoose91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, wait a year or so and get even when he is of age anddating a minor...
In any other case, I would say...you broke up with him, you and he have nothing to owe each other.
2006-11-15 16:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋