ok ive been liking this guy for a long time. and he's been liking me too.but the problem is that he plays hard to get. and i hate that because i need to make all the first moves. he flirts with me,and alot of people say why i havent gone out with him. but i just say i need to wait untill he askes me out. but i have a feeling he wont. what should i do? flirt with other guys to get him jealous so he'll come to me? flirt with him more? move on? play hard to get too? what should i do?
please some good advice i have no clue what to do....
2006-11-15 08:40:10 · 19 answers · asked by {.:*jugurl*:.} 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u need 2 flirt with other guys and like if u or 1 of ur friends have a party any time soon just dance with every guy includin him...if he acts like he likes it then u no u r doin somethin rite...dont be a hoe but u have 2 sho that if he thinks he is good enough 4 u than he has 2 sho it,,,he will come around if he realli likes u ...dont give in 2 him...hold ur head up high...hope everything works out good...u can even pray bout it that wuld be good 2...
2006-11-15 08:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not ask him out let him ask you out. Guys like him like the attention and will play with you as long as you let them. If you really want to get his attention stop flirting with him so much and the next time he talks to you make up a story about this hot date you just went on (even if you didn't make it up) that will get his attention because he will realize other guys want you and that he better step up to the plate.
2006-11-15 16:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple tell him ur tried of the games if he likes you he better ask you out now or eles your going to move on then walk away and ignore him for a whole day! he'll get the picture.
2006-11-15 16:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, as soon as you back off and go your own way, he will come around if he really likes you. Or you can ask him out first. Don't wait on him, but personally he doesn't sound worth your time. If a guy truly likes you, he doesn't treat you like that.
2006-11-15 16:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by GreeneyedCowgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 32.. ok.. Listen.. Tell him this " I really like you.. but you are confusing me and I need to know if I need to move on, do you want to go out or what?" ** Depending on your answer- if he says" no we are not going to out go" then you need to just move on. I hope that makes since... Obviously a road block of some sort on his side is in his way.... GOOD LUCK * If you need to talk email me...
2006-11-15 16:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I get turned off by forward girls, but that is just me. What works on me is the "move on" or "flirt with other guys" approach.
2006-11-15 16:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to go out with him... ask him out. No harm in that.
If you're really against asking him out then take interest in other guys. If he is truely interested then he'll come around.
2006-11-15 16:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop messsin with him like that. dude is playin into you. Stop being perdictable. Take all benefits away from him and see if he comes around. If not go to the next guy.
2006-11-15 16:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by Billie Blanco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok swettie it 2006 alomst 2007 you can ask him out he dont have to ask you times have changed,just go for it and ask him...believe me thats what i did...Now im in the best realtionship i ever had
2006-11-15 16:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by Cre 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that into you. He's not "playing" hard to get-- he doesn't want to be got. Move on.
2006-11-15 16:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋