My bd asked me and my daughter to move in with him so that we could help each other get on our feet. Well that's been 3 months ago.....im having trouble understanding him. he said it was business and he had no romantic feelings. Well the last 3 weeks, we have spent more time 2gether, he wantz 2 know wat my mom thinks about him all the time, he is always rubbing on me, he picked me up one day...over his back like old timez, he always want 2 know wat im doing or going, he getz offended if i don't eat his food, he likes holding me, he always pleasant, unless i do something stupid, he plays a displinary part in our childs life, he stares at me a lot, .......what does he want. I want 2 marry him. I love him. we havnt had sex as yet i want 2. but he stated that he said some things he didn't mean and that he changed his mind, he want relations. But he said he was going out 2 get it. What does this mean.....does he love me? what should i do?
2006-11-15 08:35:59 · 6 answers · asked by lukin4answers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-15 08:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by NOT IN USE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you around for convenience. He is not treating you in a way that shows that he loves you or cherishes a relationship with you. I suggest you keep things platonic, don't let him treat you in an intimate manner because it is confusing you. You feel more for him than he does you. He'd rather go find someone else to have sex with than have sex with you. I think that should have answered your question pretty clearly. He is playing games and stringing you along for the ride because it builds up his ego and keeps you close even though he doesn't want anything authentic with you. What a creep!
2006-11-15 08:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by PisceKween 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move out and if he wants to date you he can date you. his is going to kill your sel-esteem and it is bad for your child to see this akward relationship the older they get. I know having a child with someone is a bond I have the same thing but he did the smae thing to me as far as the dating part and now he has an actual relationship with someone else. Sometimes they just don't love you only care for you because your the mother of their child.
2006-11-15 08:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just doing this as a friend. Wait for him to make the move if he really likes you he will if not you were taking it the wrong way
2006-11-15 08:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl no he is only thinking about himself...why are you attracted to him. he wants you to help him get on his feet by splitting the bill. as far as sex he just what to get in it because you haven't given him any...after the first couple of times it probably won't be worth it.
2006-11-15 08:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you weren't looking for a spouse just a friend
2006-11-15 08:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Julie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋