2006-11-15 08:23:24 · 23 answers · asked by missyFCUK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depending on what he has done to you, you need to take a step back and see what it has done to you. I'm ex hit me twice, we got help. We went to anger management classes, ect. But mine was also an alcoholic and had lots of issues. He did change for a good 2 yrs but then he had a relapse and is now drinking again.I was with him for 6 yrs before I realized i needed to move on with my life and do better things with my life. Now don't get me wrong I love this man to death and I will always be there for him but I wont take him back til he gets the help he needs. I had his family tell me to leave his yrs ago but I never did. You have to be ready and when you are you will know it. But you need to see if the good times out weight the bad times. Its hard trust me, been there, gone through it and I'm still going through it. I hope my man changes and for your sake I hope yous does too. Good luck!
2006-11-15 08:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by Amy Z 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Partner as in lover or business partner?
Laid his hands on you?! You mean in a sexual way or in a violent way?
If you don't want either one of those... say no, go and tell.
Depending on how old you are, do you have an older brother to take care of it?
2006-11-15 16:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. leave- It's only going to get worse. I know you love him but you need to love yourself more. You don't have to be physical in an argument.
2. force him to get help- Anger management classes or professional help. If he really wants it to work he should be willing to go. Even if he doesn't anyone with these kind of problems can only benefit from any help they get.
3.take some self defense classes- if your not going to make the situation better at least kick his *** next time he tries anything.
2006-11-15 16:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by fred s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone that keeps hurting you?????
You need to get the hell out of there. If you stick around you could end up dead. Get help from the police or a local church - they can help you get out without getting hurt any further.
The other option is to take karate classes or attend a RAD class and then the next time he touches you - you can kick the **** out of him!! Wouldn't that be nice?
2006-11-15 16:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Just asking 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him now! There is no reason for him to hit you or be violent in any way. The longer you stay the worse it will get and eventually he's really going to hurt you. Don't stick around and wait for that to happen. Leave today, stay with friends, your parents whatever you have to do but get out.
2006-11-15 16:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jason S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make him breakfast. Make him a pot of BOILING GRITS, and get a IRON SKILLET, and play some GRIT BALL. DUMP the grits on him. BEAT him with the skillet. Love goes out the window when a man raises his hands to me. I'll fix it to where he'll be good to the next woman!
2006-11-15 16:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say kick his *** in the balls a few times and see if he says "but I still love you". NO MAN has a right to EVER so much as THINK about hitting a woman. What do you mean what should you do??? C'mon!
2006-11-15 16:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by PisceKween 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The person doesn't love you or they wouldn't treat you that way. It will never stop. You can end it now or when you die, not of natural causes
2006-11-15 16:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Julie J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course you love him! and you are a stupid idiot if you stay and know that he will continue putting his hands on you! he obviously doesnt love you if he does this to you. sorry to say this, but this is the brutal truth.
2006-11-15 16:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by Me of course 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, he doesnt love you if he does that to you and I think you deserve better someone who loves you and respects you. What happend if one day he kills you? Think about that. Do you have kids>?
2006-11-15 16:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋