broken heart
2006-11-15 08:13:48 · 15 answers · asked by Dennis m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, what did you do to make her not love you anymore? Or was it just that she doesn't feel the same anymore? You can't force love and if it's not meant to be then it's not. It's the cold hard truth but we all have to go through those relationships to get to the right one. Try becoming friends with her and focus on her (not about getting her back though) but don't smother the poor gal, and just wait and see what the future has to bring. Hope I've helped.
Good luck
2006-11-15 08:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by HauntingInsanity 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want someone that doesn't want you anymore. You sometimes you think I really love them but if get them back get you really don't love them at all. Wounded pride is a bad thing, but it's better that she told you and not let you catch her cheating. I've seen People that have grieved over a lost love and when you see them, you don't even know them anymore. Pride is a lot of what you are feeling.
2006-11-15 16:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by Nicki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for one how long were you to together? That would answer alot for me. My b/f of 6 yrs. just broke up with me about 2 1/2 months ago and he was the love of my life. I still love him even though he hurt me, But sometimes you have to let them go. Its the saying "If you love someone let them go, if they come back to you, you know it was meant to be". I know with my experience its hard and I still haven't move on or even started to. I know this guy lost the best thing that's ever going to happen to him and if he sees that he will be back. I'm sorry that you have to go through this but give it time. You never know what will happen. Time will tell. I wish you the best luck!
2006-11-15 16:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by Amy Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok dude.........listen up.
There are two main reasons why you SHOULDN'T want your ex back;
a) If she doesn't love you anymore, would you honestly be happy having her back knowing that she doesn't?
b) Why would you want to deny yourself the opportunity to be with someone who will love you and treat you with the respect that we all deserve?
Don't settle for second best!! Have more self-esteem and wait for that person who will make you forget all about your ex. It will be much more rewarding in the long run in spite of how much it hurts now.
2006-11-15 16:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. She doesn't love you anymore, ok? Quit whining...be a big boy and move on. Find a new girlfriend and try to remember what went wrong with your last relationship and not repeat it. Live and learn dude.
2006-11-15 16:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with someone that doesn't love you?
I know it hurts to have someone break up with you, but let yourself feel the pain and then get back up on your feet. You have to have the self confidence to move on with your life. Enjoy being single for awhile or jump back in and find someone that DOES want to be with you. It'll make you feel a lot better than wishing you were with someone that doesn't want to be with you!!!
2006-11-15 16:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't get her back if she doesn't love you anymore. Besides, why would you want to be with someone that doesn't love you? You deserve better than that. We all do. I know it's hard right now, but in time you will find someone better. Good luck.
2006-11-15 16:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by nikki 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she doesnt love you anymore??.. just focus on loving yourself,, someone else will love you the same... No woman/ man can truely love someone who doesnt love themselves....move on,, someink better is waiting round the corner
2006-11-15 16:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ivy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let her see you being too desperate
act cool and natural and let her see what shes missing out on and if that des not work then just move on
2006-11-15 16:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by alinanonymous 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There isn't much you can do. If someone doesn't love you there is nothing you can do about that
2006-11-15 16:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by Julie J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋