Ugh, I've noticed guys staring at me a lot, lately. Not just guys my age, either - old guys, like 30 and 40 year olds.
It's really annoying me, and it's somewhat demeaning.
I don't know WHY they're staring either. It's not like I'm dressing inappropriately or anything. And, I don't mean to sound like I'm fishing for compliments or anything, but I'm not really pretty.
I always wonder if they're staring because something about me is freakishly messed up, or if I have something on my face. I mean, I'm not pretty, but I'm not THAT ugly.
Anyway, there are guys on here - so, why? Why are they staring? What are your usual reasons for staring? Why the "old" men?
2006-11-15 08:08:29 · 9 answers · asked by sarahcurlygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't you hate that? I get that, too, and I never notice if it's negative or positive.
Unfortunately, these Yahoo Avatars are a poor indicators of appearence since they offer so few options (I'm thinking of writing them to tell them to put in more options), so I can't say, "oh, well it's because..."
And even if I did, looks are subjective, so that still wouldn't answer it, hehe.
Just do your best to ignore it, hun. Or stare back. I've always found that it quickly stops it.
2006-11-15 08:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ain't old but guys find all kind of girls attractive. It's generally easier for a guy to look flirtingly at a unconventionally pretty women. Lets say youre a solid seven, gut are'nt as intimidated by your'e beauty as a 9 or a 10. It's weired , I know. Guys are much better off goin for the prettiest they like, but hten again tastes always differ.
You may be really lucky, like that actress Scarlett Johannssen(did I spell that right?) If you want to know the guys opinion online here why dont you posdt your photo up on some hosting site like flikr.com or send a photo.
Cheers
PS. Be happy you're getting the attention, it's part of your'e femme fatale pwr-so use it while you have it.
2006-11-15 08:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ben B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, hey, hey!!!!!! Wait a minute!
Firstly, I can't really comment as I've never seen you (probably). Maybe you're just exuding confidence whilst going about your daily task and that is sending off vibes and guys are responding?
Secondly, being 30 myself, I kind of resent the implication that I'm "old". There's plenty of life left in this dog!! ha ha
2006-11-15 08:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This will probably just make things worse for you but they are checking you out. You don't have to be that pretty, maybe you just have a nice rack or butt. And it doesn't matter how old a guy gets, young girls always look good. Try making eye contact with them, usually they will be embarassed and look away.
2006-11-15 08:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jason S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Boys and men act like if they let one female pass them without staring then their d*cks will fall off. They are a different creature than us and I dont think we will ever understand them.
2006-11-15 08:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe its something freakishly messed in your head and you are just PARANOID!!!! Issues, issues, issues...
2006-11-15 08:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by Colonel Angus 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe its something freakishly messed on your face
2006-11-15 08:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by NOT IN USE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dunno bout the old men, but im 16 and if im staring, i see something i like, if i see something i dont like, then i close my eyes or turn my head, so ur doing fine
2006-11-15 08:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
cuz youre cute
dont wonder,
just enjoy ,
cuz one day it will stop
2006-11-15 08:14:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋