Ugly or Loser Magnet?

Question

This question was probably asked a billion times on here, But I just need to know the answer. Well, I have had a few cute kids like me, But they always break it off with me, or dump me *same thing* But anyway, I think it's possible Im a total loser Magnet, this one girl in my school is uglier than me, gets all the boys. Now on a pretty list for my school I'd probably be #3 But mostly every boy that liked me, was fat, mean, ugly, got held back, and I've changed my apperance many times even my hair cut, and clothes, I even got in shape, over the summer. really good shape. And I started puberty like when I was 10, so you could probably imagine how, devolped I am. Im not trying to brag but Im just trying to give you an idea. My face isn't ufly except for my smile. I do believe all losers are attracted to me, wouldn't you say so?

Answer 1

Just because you have a make over does not mean you have the deep down self confidence to get the dream boy in your school. I think you need to work on your insides just as much as your outsides. You probably aren't vain, but you do sound like it a bit and no one wants to be around someone who is vain, self loving and pushy.

And keep in mind, you are in a grade school, when you graduate things will be different and the 'loser' boys won't be the ones after you. And you also need to learn that while beauty may come from the inside, it is possible to lack that. Not everyone cares about looks.

I think that once you work on yourself a bit more, you should just focus on school and personal goals, boys will only cause problems at your age and will slow life down...that and you will later realize that they are all the same.

Answer 2

You know what the biggest turnon for boys is? What's going to get them swarming around you? Self-confidence. I know it's nasty because you don't have self confidence unless the boys like you and the boys don't like you unless you have self confidence, and that's harsh, but it's true. If you like yourself, think that you're pretty and fun, and don't become conceited about it, all the boys will be after you.

Of course, being as young as it sounds like you are, the boys are probably still growing up and most can't help but be losers anyways...

Just be who you want to be and try to be happy in that. You'll be surprised how well it does for you.

Answer 3

Constantly changing your appearance maybe a sign of instability or may make guys think you're high maintence. To make guys feel comfortable with you enough to ask you out be yourself, have a sense of humor and show some confidence in who you are don't worry about some percieved notion of what you should be.

Answer 4

No, you're just really, really, REALLY shallow.

Looks aren't everything. Maybe if you stopped being such a damn picky ***** one of the 'millions of boys that like you' might actually catch your fantasy, once you get past all the superficial crap that seems to be caught in your eyes. Losers aren't attracted to you, you're just a loser yourself.

Geez, get a life and get over yourself.

Answer 5

i dont think of elegance is how huge somebody is, or what they appear as if. i've got faith that elegance lies on the interior. (i understand its kinda cliche, yet i even have faith that). that being actual, i think of that's good which you're attempting to drop pounds, becuz being heavy can convey approximately wellbeing themes. a great form of guys decide for self constructive ladies, who're humorous, and characteristic a great suggestions-set. so attempt that? contemporary your self in a manner that makes you seem specific of your self, huge or no longer, and youre specific to entice the hotties;] haha As for the guy, particularly he looks like he used you. im rather sorry. attempt staying faraway from FWB by way of fact its in no way going to help on your project. better of success girly;] i actual wish i helped in some way!! =]

Answer 6

I had the same problem last year. And i thought the same thing. But if you talk to all the "hott" or "cute" guys at your school, they probably want to go out with you, but they are just too chicken or shy to. The losers arent chicken or shy because they dont have a reputation to worry about. Popular guys are afraid that if you say no, their rep will be ruined. Thats what happened to me..My advice to you is to not worry about it, but if you like someone ((suchas a cute/popular guy)) ask him out, because he probably wants to go out with you too.

Answer 7

I have that problem too
People always tell me how pretty I am but no one ever asks me out
But that's just school
When you go out in the real world all the hotties will love u

Answer 8

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i don't know if ur #3 it might not be too bad. maybe just take a break for a while and see what happens.

Answer 9

i think im starting to feel the same way you do. i mean im not the most attractive girl at school, but people tell me all the time how pretty i am... yet i still get guys who are just not for me.

i always wish that a good looking, sane, awesome guy would like me, but they all seem to go for the snotty little hoes at my school who just arent pretty at all (more skanky than anything). i dont want to change myself for anyone, i want someone to recognize me for me, and not what i want them to like. so i think you are wasting precious time changing yourself. i think we just have to keep waiting. amazing things come to people who wait for it :).

Answer 10

think about it............ok, done thinking yet......well is there something like..your attitude, a personality flaw, maybe u need to change inside not out because u'r prolly pretty!