Ok a few months ago when I met my bf he said he loved my strenght, etc.. the fact that I am a headstrong.. u know
Now he said: you know after our fight the other day I figured I REALLY CANNOT HANDLE YOU . You became too strong..
Then he said: " that day I've tried TO FORCE YOU to do what I wanted you to do but I couldn't ".. and he sounded upset... ( the fight happened becauz he wanted to make me stop talking to my ex, but I got mad at him ad refused)
- why would a guy try to dominate his girl??
(he's not a maniac or a control frean tho)
Another question: I don't get he wants me to be strong but then complains that I'm strong ..
-What does he want exactly .. and what does a too strong woman mean to a man ?!
2006-11-15 08:01:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HEEYYYYYY DON'T GET ME STARTED LOL
I'M NOT CHEATING ON MY BF! I WAS JUST SAYING HI TO MY EX JUST AS ANY OTHER GOOD FRIEND !
+ HE SAID IT'S OK IF YOU TALK TO YOUR EX AND WHEN I DID, HE GOT MAD AND HE WAS LIKE : I THOUGHT YOU WOULD UNDERSTAND BY YOURSELF THAT IT BOTHERS ME I JUST DIDN'T WANT TO MAKE U FEEL SUFFOCATED!
HE WANTS ME TO FIGURE HIS THOUGHTS OR WAT ?
>:(
2006-11-15 08:14:06 · update #1
It's usually all about power. He wants some control too.
2006-11-15 08:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Some men grown up believing it men should be dominant in relationships and women should be submissive. Some people can quote Scripture to support this view as if God wants it that way. Some men learn the behavior from their own parents. Some women believe thats the way it should be and support that position. Obviously lots of other people have lots of other opinions. Some men have low self esteem and want to use someone else to make themselves feel more powerful.
2. I dont think anyone can tell you want he wants other than this man himself. Ask him.
3. I can't speak for all men but surely most would agree that strength of character, for men or women, is a great quality. It means you don't give in too easily whether to your own temptations or to the difficulties of life. It means you support yourself and those you love, not just monetarily but emotionally and spiritually through good and bad times. Anyone that perfers to be with someone who is weak is probably pretty weak themselves.
2006-11-15 08:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by dan_in_la 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think equal strength and most of all respect and love and understanding are important. Mostly honest communication that builds trust and love. Make that love bond stronger and stronger. Not a competition thing. Maybe dominating sometimes, both ways can be a fun game in bed. It has no place in a true committed relationship.
Sounds like jealousy maybe.
2006-11-15 08:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to find a real man that will allow you to
dominate him...
If you want to be the female part of a relationship with a
man you can respect, then you are going to have to become
a bit more feminine and accept some domination by the male.
That does not mean you cannot be a strong and independant
woman, it does mean however that you are going to have to
accept the headship of your male mate...
2006-11-15 08:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im white, my gf is hispanic even as her aunt requested her "howdy with the whiteboys" she only recapped all her previos hispanic boyfriends. plus hispanic females like my gf want to orgasm lots even as they do it, and surely bro in each and each and every of the cases ive heard females communicate about sex the hispanic dudes only dont look to carry a lot to the table except magnificent pores and skin and hair. 12 years of relationship diverse adult males could produce a minimum of a pair climaxes for a lady ... shouldnt it?
2016-11-24 21:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure when he said strong he didn't mean you would continue to talk to your ex when its obvious it bothers him. Whats that about anyway ?? Are you trying to be strong or a b*tch ? Would it be ok with you if he was friends with his ex ?
2006-11-15 08:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys sound a little messed up. why is he trying to force you to do stuff? why are you chatting with your ex? strength is one thing disrespecting your partner is another.
2006-11-15 08:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
messing with 2 guys at once isn't strong...it's very weak
2006-11-15 08:07:28 · answer #8 · answered by oneman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but hes jealous
2006-11-15 08:05:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋