should I still marry her?
2006-11-15 07:58:16 · 33 answers · asked by MikeyNY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
She used to weigh 100 pounds I made her get on the scale she was up almost 10 pounds. WTF she needs to put down the crisco
2006-11-15 08:04:41 · update #1
I started calling her a new nickname of "Crisco" to motivate her
2006-11-15 08:06:32 · update #2
No, don't do put her through that.
2006-11-15 08:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by wendy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is probably putting on weight because your stressing her out. Before you start calling her names you both should try to find the source of the weight gain. Did she start a new medication, switch birth control, could she be pregnant. Calling her "Crisco" is really an a**-hole move. If she is a very sensitive woman comments like that could cause her to feel depressed and even pick up an eating disorder.
Should you still marry her?
NO, if your relationship is based on the superficial (such as appearance) it is not going to last. APPEARANCE does not last!! Ask your self an honest question put your pride aside "Am I good for my fiance?". Do you think you are a benefit to her? Good sex does not count because she can find that anywhere? But will you support encourage and continue to love her despite difficult times ? When you can say yes to these questions then you can CONSIDER marriage.
2006-11-15 09:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't you marry her? Just because she's gaining a little weight makes you want to turn the other way? Sounds like you don't really love her. Maybe you should rethink why you're with her in the first place. Not trying to sound harsh dude, but if you're THAT worried about her gaining weight then you really need to talk to her about it or get some help one.
2006-11-15 08:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by HauntingInsanity 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not if it is that big of a factor for you.
I do think that women should continue to take care of themselves after they get married and I think it is ridiculous for women to assume men are shallow because they want you to. However, if you just "think" she is gaining weight, maybe you are getting cold feet for other reasons. At any rate, you 2 should sit down and have a discussion about your expectations.
2006-11-15 08:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she A toothpick?
If you are asking me I think 100-140 pponds is just right!
If you are worried about weight you Absolutley should NOT marry her!
Don't be an *** hole just love her for who she is
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!
2006-11-15 10:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u sure she's not knocked up?
Do you want to be the only fat one out of the two? What does it matter if she's gained ten pounds? She probably gained them from anxiety thinking she's going to be YOUR spuse.
You'd better get used to it, because over time, both of you are going to gain weight like crazy, you shallow dick head.
2006-11-15 08:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Carolina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should consider a lifetime as a bachelor. You aren't even married yet and I can already foresee two trips to the courthouse, one for your marriage license and the other for divorce court. I wouldn't wish you on my worst female enemy. I can already sense that you are a verbal abuser, so all she is going to get out of this union is pain and suffering. Please spare her...no one deserves a shallow, inconsiderate, egotistical, vain and selfish person such as yourself. Ick...ick...ick.
2006-11-15 08:20:05 · answer #7 · answered by Lunasea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG you are going to complain abotu 10 pounds! Honey wait until she has children!!!!
You fell in love with her for a reason and I dont think her weight is why you fell in love with her!
If I was her I sure as hell wouldnt want to marry you!!!
2006-11-15 08:21:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant belive you are asking this. Arent you marring her because you love her and no bc she looks good? What are you gonna do when she gets old and you get old. you are not going to look the same way. I dont think you love her to ask this question. Dont marry her she deserves better than you.
2006-11-15 08:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're a jerk, you know that????? If all you're marrying her for is her body, then do yourselves BOTH a favor, and call off the wedding.......because both your body and hers will change over the course of your lives. If you can't look past that, then you'll never find someone to share your life with either.
2006-11-15 08:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her yes...
Also try to do more active things as a couple so maybe the exercise will keep the weight off...
2006-11-15 07:59:56 · answer #11 · answered by What Do I Know? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋