SHould I have sex with my bf after only 2 weeks of dating, he really wants to but I am a virgin and am not sure about doing it for the first time
2006-11-15 07:56:56 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he really likes you he would wait. 2 weeks is to fast if it's your first time. Follow you heart friend. I hope I helped.
Mike
2006-11-15 07:59:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
2 weeks? no way! I'm surprised you'd even call someone your boyfriend after only 2 weeks of dating.
Almost every guy is going to want to have sex right away, but you have to stick to your own morals and values. Wait until it feels right and you're with someone you really like or love and want to share that with him.
If this guy is pushing you to have sex and you say you want to wait, then dump him! My guess is he'll move right along to someone else who will give it up and you will be VERY happy that you didn't give in and waste your first time on him.
If after you explain yourself, he is willing to wait, then great - take it slow and do it on your timetable, not his. Good luck!
2006-11-15 16:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would strongly suggest that you did not. What if that is only reason he is with you? You need to give it some more time, like quite awhile to make sure that he is truly into you. Your virginity should be special to you, and it is ultimately up to you, but have some respect for yourself, and if he respects you, he will wait too. Dont know how old you are, and it doesnt matter -I would suggest you to hold out until you know that you can trust this person and that you love him.
2006-11-15 16:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by designerista 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! After 2 weeks, it is a BAD idea! Before having sex with anyone, ask yourself if you would be okay with this person being the father of your children and having him in your life (even if you're not married) forever. After 2 weeks, no matter how much you think you love him, it is not possible to know for sure that you will always be together.
Also, if you're even questioning if it's okay, you aren't ready to do it with him yet. When you know, you know, no questions.
2006-11-15 15:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by Esma 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two weeks.. hell do you even know they guys middle name? There is no way to know a guy well enough after two weeks to share something as special as sex with him. If you actually want a relationship, hold off til your sure of your feelings for him. If you just wanna get laid and be a whore, go for it. But don't be suprised when he never calls or you end up with an XYZ disease.
2006-11-15 16:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by auequine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO wat u out ur mind yea right how long u want this relationship to last 3 yrs or 3 weeks if he really wants to i would tell him to back off he respects u h'll be patient with u and wait until ur ready...this is a once in a life time things u dont need to regret after ur first time
2006-11-15 15:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Nena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, because you really dont know him that well at all, but if you knew him for a long time and just started dating him then i said yeah, but if you jsut met him, then no because you need to really connect to the person, you need to get know him a little better cuz he might what to just have sex with you and then leave you.
2006-11-15 16:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then dont. If you are not sure, you are not ready.
If you need help, think of all the diseases, and things that can go wrong, like pregnancy. If you think you are ready to chance any of this with him, then by all means, go for it. Have a good time.
Otherwise, don't do it, don't think about it. It's not worth it.
2006-11-15 16:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not and don't let him pressure you into it. If he cares about you he will wait until you feel you are ready to take the next step and without pressuring you. Two weeks is not long enough to know if a relationship will last.
2006-11-15 16:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks is to soon Chances are he'll dump you real fast after that because he wants to be first in then brag big time on how easy you were because you were with for two weeks.
2006-11-15 16:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋