My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months and we are in love. I want to meet her family for the holiday season but she says she doesnot want her family to know that she is a lesbian. Should I dump her, because if her family doesnot know she is a lesbian we have no future together
2006-11-15 07:52:38 · 19 answers · asked by a hot lesbian stud 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give her the opportunity to tell her family on her own terms. be patient with the person you care about - a relationship is not on a timer.
2006-11-15 07:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by ___ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time to come around... 6 months is still a pretty new relationship. Don't pressure her into anything. If you're in love then why are you even questioning if you should dump her? Honestly - people probably already have their suspicions about her sexual orientation if she isn't dating men. Don't dump her because of something that she's not ready to do. This is your issue right now.
2006-11-15 15:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by *bitter-sweetness* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I would talk to her about how you are feeling. If she does not feel the same way and can't face the reality of the situation, then it's not going to work. She needs to sort things out with herself and become comfortable with being a lesbian and having her family know it. It would be best if you would be supportive of her and help, but if you can't then move on. Good Luck!
2006-11-15 15:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is she ever going to come out of the closet? If not then I would, cuz then she and you will have to lie about you guy's feelings and that's not fair. My dad didn't come out of the closet until his father died, and I understand his reasons for that, but could you wait that long to express how you guys feel? What are you ging to want out of this relationship, is what you should be asking your self and once you answer that then I think you'll know what to do
2006-11-15 15:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just doesn't want to upset her parents. She probably loves you alot. Maybe she just thinks if she breaks it to her parents, they'll totally disapprove of her and and her being with women. You'll probably have a future together. She might tell her parents one day, you never know, and they might approve of it. Anyways, it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks, you're in love.
2006-11-15 15:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is because she is not ready to go public about her sexuality. Why don't you go on holiday as friends so you can meet her family. then you can wait for her to tell her parents when she is ready.
2006-11-15 15:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, I don't think you have a good enough reason to dump her.If your in love, and you do love her, her family shouldn't decipher the future with you and her.
2006-11-15 15:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah
2006-11-15 15:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't dump her. I'll bet ya that her family knows, perhaps they can't accept it. But that's another story.
2006-11-15 15:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a problem, that's for sure. How long does she think she can keep this from her family??? Know what I mean?
2006-11-15 15:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by donewithyahooanswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋