junky and now im left with so much stress i have no support from my family and i think whos gona wont me with three hipper kids is there any one out there with the same proplems
2006-11-15 07:52:24 · 7 answers · asked by hotmail 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Try the local council estates, there will be others like you, maybe you could form some sort of support group and get lots of grants from the government !
2006-11-15 08:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by dontdoweekends 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Im not in that situation but I sure feel your pain. I know it must be real hard for you but you have to put your best foot forward and stay focused for your children. Dont feel sorry for yourself cause it will only make you weak.You should'nt be thinking about other men at this time until your life is situated and if a man does'nt want you cause of your kids then he just aint for you. These are the things in life that make you strong. Remember GOD does not put no weight on you that you cannot handle... Stay Strong..
2006-11-15 08:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Feelove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun if my sister whom has 7 kids and one on the way can find happiness after 6 screw ups.....< yes each child has a diffrent dad appart from the 7th and the unborn> im sure there is hope for you , be lucky you have 3 boys and not over half a dozen you will find someone , i was pregnant at 17 with my first and was badly abused by him.....now im 23 expecting my second child and blissfully married to my soulmate you just got to stop looking at take life day by day , and praise yourself from leaving the man that couldve endangered you and your kids , chin up hun!
2006-11-15 08:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by Trudy Joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is always someone for someone .In your case someone who likes kids.and you. They are out there lots of them .Just a matter right place at right time.But be ware of taking any on e home till you know them well you have to make sure .the kids are safe.There is such a thing as birth control.But know the kids are here and need to be looked after.I am a Grand parent so I can understand your problems
2006-11-15 08:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand your family not helping you. I hope you have contact Welfare for some help. You are better off without a junky for a husband and yes you can raised your child by yourself I did.There help out there just have to ask for it. Good luck
2006-11-15 08:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by SUN FLOWER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of anyone in your position, but I am sure there are sites on the net that you could possibly log onto for some helpful information and possible day centres, where you can take your children and interact with others in your position. It .must be stressfull for you, but you must try and focus on your children and yourself first and foremost, someone will come along eventually. In the meantime stay on here and interact with others.
2006-11-15 08:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa, i feel for ya. i don't have triplets but i do have 3 kids ages 4,3,& 1. i can't emanage doing it my self. theres gotta be a support group in your area, do you hav WIC? they are really good about talking and listing to you. i hope things get better for you. when your feeling down just remember that there is always someone worse off than you.
2006-11-15 08:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋