What do I do? It's obvious that he REALLY likes me, but I don't exactly have the same feelings. And the hard part is that we've only been going out for 3 days! I need help, and I don't have the courage to
dump him.
2006-11-15 07:43:22 · 10 answers · asked by Angelbaby 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your life will be really difficult if you let lack of courage keep you from doing the things you need to do.
Tell him respectfully that it simply isn't working out. You don't have to say it perfectly or gracefully, but you do have to get the words out somehow.
If you think of it as ending something that wasn't working out, rather than "dumping" him, it will be easier for you to maintain respect for his feelings.
2006-11-15 07:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by liz_in_adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not your boyfriend if you've only been together 3 days. If you don't like him and don't want to be with him it's not fair to either of you to lead him on. You may hurt his feelings but let him down easy and just explain to him sorry you don't feel the same.
2006-11-15 15:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by sxyalmond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like yourself and love yourself. If you answer yes to both then you have a choice to make. He likes you you do not care. in 3 days you have decided that you do not like him. This man is not for you move away tell him you are not interested. He should be man enough to take a no from a girl
2006-11-15 15:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have to stay in a relationship if you don't want to i would stay in it for a few more days and then if things don't work out then you have to end it. its not worth it. he'll get over you with time so don't feel bad but dump him softly. dont say "you're not a good boyfriend i don't want to talk to you again." yeah that would just be mean but say that you don't think that youre really connecting and you think that you want to see other people. i wish you the best!
2006-11-15 15:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by forgottendream49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then be unhappy. Choice made. U have to tell him the truth, before u lead him on any longer. The shorter this lasts the better.
2006-11-15 15:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest with him. Maybe he is a nice guy. You shouldn't run it for other girls. I know a lot of nice guys who are scared to be in relationships because they keep on getting burned. It is better to end it now before it gets more serious.
2006-11-15 15:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by jeff c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go out with guys you dont even like. now your only choice is to break his heart and his pride. or you could hang in there and be totaly miserable. but if you take pity on him that will only make him hurt more
2006-11-15 15:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you have a 3 of options
1. hang in there and hope you become more attracted to him as you get to know him better
2. tell him how you feel and break his heart
3. drag it on and on so he loves you even more, use him and then seriously break his heart BAD!
2006-11-15 15:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i just was in this exact situation just do stuff that turns him off and don't call him at all and when he calls you talk about ur ex boyfriends and stuff
2006-11-15 15:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Olivia 69♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH UNFORTANETLY HE FEELS THE SAME WAY ABOUT YOU!!
2006-11-15 15:46:51 · answer #10 · answered by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋