I think i am in love with a boy in my class. He looks at me all the time and i have started to think of him every day and every night. What can i do? I feel comfused. Any suggestions?
2006-11-15 07:42:36 · 21 answers · asked by Melany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may not be in love, but you definitely like him! It's a good sign that he looks at you, so he may like you too. He just may be too shy to say anything. The best thing to do is to talk to him. If you're too shy, just pass him a note or something and tell him that you like him (and explain that you are shy). He will be very flattered. Good luck!
2006-11-15 07:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are attracted to him. There is something that interests you, so go ahead and talk to him. Discover more about him, spend many many days, and many years, and forgive him many times, cry over him with a broken heart, leave him again and again, and find yourself back to him each and every time. Then you're in love. Thinking about someone often and having him look at you often is a great start, it could be the start of a wonderful love, but love must be developed furiously and seriously, over many shared experiences, and sometimes disagreements.
2006-11-15 07:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to do something for you, some kind of favor that would make him feel manly/strong/protective. For example, ask him to help you move your desk or chair to the other end of the classroom (you'll have to make up an excuse). Since you are classmates, I don't see why you would not talk to him. And then you say "oh, thank you for your help, you're so strong". That will stroke his ego and he will feel more confident to talk to you if he likes you.
Good luck!
2006-11-15 07:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by Belindita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it may seem like you are in love but trust me it's complete lust. love is when you really know a person and would do anything for them, if you just think a person is cute or like their outward personality you are not really in love with the person but are in love with the idea of the person. to be in love you really have to get to know a person and the deeper thoughts of that person. lust is when you constantly think/dream of the person. you can tell thats it's lust becuase when you dream about the things that could happen with that person it shows that you dont know the person well enough. lust is probably just as strong as love but in a different way. love is for a long time and lust is like a flame that quickly dies out. i would be careful not to act on lust becuase you could end up getting hurt. but if i were you i would approach the situation slowly, by starting to get to know the kid. i'm in the same situation as you, so i'm gonna try the same thing.
2006-11-15 07:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Grow up and handle your own love problems. You can't even Post a question the right way so how are you going to cope with
another person.
2006-11-18 02:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You arent in love babe, you're in like. Talk to him. Ask him to go somewhere with you. Best of luck.
2006-11-15 07:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell a friend to tell him that u like him that way if he likes u he'll ask u out and if not ur spared the embarresment of asking
2006-11-15 07:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by snorfgoogle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel comfused, too. Ha ha ha
2006-11-15 07:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Seriously, if you're still in High school chances are you're not in love. Seriously.
2006-11-15 07:45:31 · answer #9 · answered by donewithyahooanswers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, yes love because he looks at you. Ummm how about you talk to him, see whayt he is like go from there?
2006-11-15 07:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by tvman30044 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋