Please help me understand why girls get into relationships that are bad and complain and complain and complain about it, seeking advise from others, yet don't take it and stay with the guy? Are they looking for attention or is it a mental issue? Why stay in a relationship that doesn't make you happy? Odds are the guy won't change...
2006-11-15 07:03:36 · 35 answers · asked by What Do I Know? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Various reasons:
- low self esteem
- the inability to see the situation as it is
- holding onto false hope
- unable to break the other bonds that hold them together ($, kids, ect)
There are other reason, but those are the most common
2006-11-15 07:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 16⤊ 1⤋
Why Are Girls So Dumb
2016-11-14 07:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I have found about girls and bad relationships is that many girls feel insecure about themselves and even though they may not be happy, having a boyfriend makes them feel good about themselves. In society today, it is less acceptable for a girl to be single than a guy. Girls want to be accepted and they complain about these relationships because it is actually easier than doing anything. Also some girls actually fear change and worry about being alone.
2006-11-15 07:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Katie C 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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Yeah, pretty much. A lot of white girls (and guys) lack inner strength. It's part of growing up in a culutre that values image more than substance. We're not taught to fend for ourselves any more, or develop any real character. The best way to develop character is by going through tough times. It understandable then why black and hispanic girls have a more developed inner strength than white girls who are obssesed with their looks rather than their internal characteristics, and who have known few hardships. Not having to go through hardship breeds stupidity (just look at Paris Hilton). But at the same time, I hate seeing guys exploit dumb white girls... Oh,check out the speech about black/white women on Reservoir Dogs... it pretty much explains everything.
2016-04-02 08:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see. THEY LOVE DRAMA. They like haveing something to talk about. Come on now most women say they hate it, but really they do. Lets see what is Soap Opras geared toward. Now they have basically prime time soap opras now with shows like Gray's Anatamy where every is sleeping with each other. Face it they love to be in the bad relationships and like complaining about it. That is why they stay in. Then they would get bored and not know what to do.
2006-11-15 07:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Vthokie25 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
DITTO. I am friends with a lot of girls and I have heard this way too many times. they want a nice guy, but when he comes along they say rediculous things like "Oh, he's too good for me," or "I don't deserve him, " or my personal favorite "I don't want to ruin our friendship." Then they get hurt and act as they never saw it coming. I try not to judge, but some of them deserve what they get. So, I have come to a conclusion: It's all about age. When they are young, they want to have fun and just can't be "tied" down. When they are older, and little more calm, they start to look for those nice guys.
2006-11-15 07:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by opkansas83 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like somebody got up on the wrong side of the bed today!! Anyways... to answer your question, you girls aren't dumb, simply persistant!!!
I've been separated from my ex for more than a year now. To tell the truth it was my fault!!! Next time I get into a relationship, I will see to it that she gets all the attention she deserves and more!!! You ladies are the most precious (and dangerous too lol) creation that this earth could ever have!!!!!!
You're not dumb... you are the most beautiful, beyond comparison, creatures on earth!!! On behalf of all those jerks that are treating you badly, I apologise!!
2006-11-15 07:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by Chino 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I've asked myself this same question!
I think it's because they want to be loved so badly.
Girls are naturally drawn to the *******.... and it's hard to break it off with a guy, even if he is a jerk...esp..if you've been together for some time.... you get attached... and girls wiat thinking the guy will change and more often then not..they DONT! Girls like that usually have to go through a few hard knocks before they get it.--lol I dont know why.
2006-11-15 07:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by sweetkiss_xo 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
some girls just want to be with someone they dont want to feel alone i guess, or some just like to get into a relationship with a bad guy so they can fix him
honestly i dont know if a guy doesnt make me happy i tell him and if he cant chage i just break up cuz im not gonna stay in a relationship that is bad and that in not happy with
2006-11-15 07:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by sofitaps 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it is abusive relationships they seek, it could stem from their family life. If they grew up in an abusive household, that is how they view relationships. They may think they can change what their mother couldn't. They think they can fix the situation or change the man.
2006-11-15 07:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was in a bad relationship before and finally got out. It's not that I didn't hear what other people were saying to me but I had to figure it all out on my own. You can advise people until you turn blue but until they are ready to take that step, they won't take it.
2006-11-15 07:05:54 · answer #11 · answered by Lt 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋