I need some help on getting my ex back. The last 4 months of our relationship were boring dull and mundane. I did not realise this was wrong until about a week before she broke up with me. She is so special to me and we had been together for 2 1/2 years and now she seems bitter towards me. I want to be the most important person in her life but I am not right now and I hate it. I just am not sure what to do for her to remember all that we did together and how special we were. She thinks that we never did anything the whole time we were together when we did stuff all the time and I want her to know that and I want her to feel the way she used to. I just don't know what to do any advice on how to remind her of what we had and how good it was. Please I need help becuase I am not well without her and I really need her.
2006-11-15 07:03:14 · 5 answers · asked by jsnpasty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to lose some1 u love a lot is hard but gain the person back is hard. Maybe she doesn't have the freedom she want or maybe she want u in anothere way i mean cool one some1 who like to make jokes or some1 to understand her i advise u try to thnk wat u have done together wat u should have done have u ever try to have a conversation wiz her i mean spend sometime wiz her talkin wiz her to knw her better talkin to a person make u knw about the person more ,more u talk to a person more u knw her more u understand her try to slove it out don't meet her for now don't phone for now and even go infornt of her for now just thnk wiz cool mind wat u can do to make yr relationship better be her frnd be her best frnd i knw u need her then after some time u contact ask her to forgive for wat u have done tell her that want to be her frnd
courage friend
gud luck
take care
2006-11-15 07:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by lovena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I think you need to just give her space. If she wants to come back to you, she will in her own time. The last thing you want to do is appear to be stalking her or become a pest. You mention how good your relationship was. Maybe it was only good for you. Perhaps, you were a bit more involved in how YOU felt things should be, and simply never saw what works for her. A woman's heart will slowly break when she feels emotionally abandoned. Once it's broken, that's it. Think about it, if things were so great, she would not have left. I think her needs were a lot stronger than just "doing things" together.
It's time to move on. You want her back simply for your own reasons. You'll survive. If you truly love her, you will allow her to find happiness with someone who will fully appreciate her.
2006-11-15 15:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by *~*~*~~~His Angel~~~*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what went wrong with your relationship. Tell her to be honset with you, and that you could change for her. If you want her back, you will have to change. Let her know that you are worth her while. If you love this girl as much as you say you do, let her know! I don't know the perfect way, nor does anyone else here. Only you know, b/c only you know her. Pay attaention to the little things about her, and show her the respect she deserves.
Good luck.
2006-11-15 15:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by boy_skowting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her flowers alot and things that would remind her about a place you guys went toghether and had a good time
2006-11-15 15:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by Cre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize and tell her that you didn't mean none of that bad stuff you told her and take her out somewhere where you guys can talk about random stuff(NOTHING ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP!)good luck
2006-11-15 15:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋