I have had sex before, but i dont want to screw things up with this guy. I really like him, but want to show him that i'm interested and that we will get to the sex part... what can we do?
2006-11-15 07:00:02 · 12 answers · asked by real bored at work.. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what else can we do besides having sex to be more physical?
2006-11-15 07:50:52 · update #1
Tell him. Go out for coffee or something, and bring up your sex life. Tell him exactly what you said here. Tell him you don't want to ruin anything, but that you will come to the sex stage, you are just not there yet. Be 100% honest with him. If you love him, you should just tell him how you feel!
2006-11-15 07:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by boy_skowting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing better then speak the truth.. Explain to him how u fancy him and that u would love to get physically close to him, But u aren't ready at the moment.. and that u would like to take your time .. Don't push your self into any thing u are not ready for.. If he really likes and cares about he would definitely understand and would wait for u .. Good luck and be honest about Ur feelings..
2006-11-15 07:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're dating this guy, then you're dating him for a reason. If he's not intimate with you, then you're "Just friends".
You have to ask yourself: If you're not having sex with this guy, then what's the difference between having him as a boyfriend, or having him as a best friend?
If you say "committment", then you're just saying you don't want him to have sex with anyone else. And if that's the case, then you might as well be the one to give it to him, before he goes out and gets it elsewhere.
2006-11-15 07:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by JediKnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever let a guy pressure you into that.
Just tellhim that you want to wait... if he really loves or cares about you..not doing THAT wont even be a factor.
Love NEVER ='s sex. If he ends the relationship because of it... then just be thankful....
2006-11-15 07:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by sweetkiss_xo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you ever let a boy pressure you into something you're not ready for. Its very mature for you not to just zip into it right away. Congratz, I suggest you just tell him that you want to wait a little bit more.The worst thing to do is make a huge mistake or regret.
Good luck!
2006-11-15 07:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 00:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by laseter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're not ready. When you are, surprise him. If he leaves because you want him to wait, then be thankful that he's gone.
2006-11-15 07:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to wait. If he doesn't respect that, kick him to the curb. You deserve respect. Otherwise, just let things happen, just don't go any farther than you or he want to.
2006-11-15 07:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him tell him what you just said here if he doesnt understand that u are not ready to have sex with him then he is not worth it
2006-11-15 07:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by sofitaps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is all he wants then he truley doesn't love you. If he does he would wait till you are ready for it
2006-11-15 07:02:47 · answer #10 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋