i think she still likes me and i still kinda like her, but im really breaking up with her for how she treats me. When ever we talk, which is like for 1 minute a day, its always like one line and she goes and talks to someelse. She never talks to me and instead goes and talkes to her friends or other boys. This is what really upsets me and i ve tried telling her that but i dont think she undterstands. I know she likes me becuase i always ask her if she likes me in person and she always says yes and grabs my arm.
2006-11-15 06:43:40 · 21 answers · asked by big e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah were freshman in high school and im the shy one, shes the one who is always talking to everyone else
2006-11-15 06:48:19 · update #1
Just talk to her and suggest you coll off for a while but remain friends. It leaves the door open for a future relationship but frees you both up. Good luck :D
2006-11-15 06:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I have been in a similar situation.
The first question you need to ask is can you see yourself without her? Because if you go there to break it off, its done, no chance of rekindling. Breakups for 90% are for good.
Second, see if she treats just you this way or others. Maybe she has ADD and can't really pay attention to someone all that closely for too long.
Thirdly, don't think of her talking to other boys as her cheating on you. I have done that and its stupid. Like most guys have female and male friends, most girls have male and female friends. Just because she talks to a guy doesn't mean she doesn't care for you.
My real suggestion is to make sure if you do break up with her that it is what you really think is best and what you really want. Love can be tricky and if you give up too early, you are going to have a tough time in any relationship.
GL.
2006-11-15 06:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by CJ B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are attractive whilst they're inebriated dude it replaced right into a 12 months in the past if she cheats on u lower back then unload her she isnt the astounding one your youthful it won't final anyhow relationships in teenage years in no way final. Wait til ur older im 17 and that i dont believe that a relationship will ever paintings out with me and a woman bc the girl oftentimes dont be attentive to what they desire. maximum females are attempting to get injury and f...kd thats only the existence of a few teenage women. yet supply her yet another probability and spot the way it is going i'm hoping ull be one among them that final in relationship
2016-12-10 09:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by kulpa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry to say i think this girl could be playing you. Belive me just cause she says yes she does like you in person doesnt mean that its true. Sometimes girls will say anything to keep their man ((whether the reason be to maintain social status or even just for security)) If shes going and talking to other people ((especially guys)) more than you then this is not healthy and it'd prolly be the best idea to tell her its over. If she doesnt listen the other times youve tried to talk to her then chances are she wont listen any other time
hope this helps...good luck
2006-11-15 06:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by sicilianchic629 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your going about this all wrong. You should be asking her if she's embarrassed to be seen with you. If she had any manners, while your on your walks with her she should at least introduce you to the people she is dissing you for. Grabbing your arm does not mean a darn thing kiddo. She's just sucking up to you.
2006-11-15 06:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, i feel for u, u sound like a nice guy and do really wanna be with someine who treats u like this, i doesnt sound like u would be a good couple. I would say there are better women out there for u and what are u missing if you leave her. Breakup with her but do it nicely. Let her know u still like her but tell her how u feel by her behavior. sorry man this sucks but u need to do what is right for u. i think she is probably cheating
2006-11-15 06:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by jrodmr2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let this girl walk all over you!!! Of course she throws you a bone when you ask her in person. No effort=No relationship. Stand up for yourself and break up with her.
2006-11-15 06:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are on the brink and have to come here for validation, by all means break up with her. Life's too short.
2006-11-15 06:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by boredperv 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you she tell her that you need to talk to her and tell her you don't like the way she treats you! And that if she can't treat you better, then your gunna have to break up with her for good.
2006-11-15 06:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by Allie loves Nick J. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think breaking up is a wise decission
if you really love her then make her clear about your feelings
i think she will understand you if she cares for you
2006-11-15 07:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋