i split with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago because of sooo many reasons but in short he was 25, im 17, was just really starting to get to me, all the pressures and that, but we were together for 6 months and i really did care for him. then i met this guy at a friends party - the night i broke up with my now ex- and we hit it off and everything and now he wants to meet up tomorrow and ive said yes but i feel so guilty. Hes also way out of my league and im scared of screwing up and makin an idiot of myself! dont know wat to do!
2006-11-15 06:43:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you feel? What do you REALLY want to do?
This is just about you, and no-one else. If you're happy about going out with this new guy (being scared is completely normal) then you should go. It doesn't mean that you cared any less for your ex, there's a reason why you broke up and maybe internally by the time you broke up you had already made up your mind about not being with him. Maybe internally you knew that it wasn't gonna last long.
As said above, life is short so you should do whatever makes you happy.
2006-11-15 06:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by mackenzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if ur so worried about this, maybe its not the right time for u to get involved with someone esle so soon. then again, ur 17, why not go and enjoy urself! maybe go out and meet him but make sure he knows the situation, keep it light and see what happens
2006-11-15 06:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by zeina392 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel guilty about it if you're sure that you're okay on the decision you took. But if you feel guilty, then it means you still like him.
2006-11-15 06:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by Victor A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start out has friends nothing to be guilty of when your friends.
2006-11-15 06:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Melody M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know u probably feel guilty , but dont, becusae the faster u move on the better off u will be in my opinoin...
2006-11-15 06:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by Trish W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes foolish since youre jailbait and you need to findsomeone your own age
2006-11-15 06:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to worry about things like that ....
2006-11-15 06:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by RedCloud_1998 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably just that you still feel a loyalty to this guy...
2006-11-15 06:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋