i been dating a senior for 3 months and we might have sex this friday, it will be fun, it is my first time, do you think this is normal. I am in 9th he is in 12th. Codos
2006-11-15 06:42:48 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do that. And have fun with your pity party when he dumps you next week.
2006-11-15 06:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by LoneStar 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Multiple reasons for why you should NOT:
A) This person is a senior, which means he will most probably break up with you when he goes away to college.
B) He may even be overage.
C) Risks for having sex completely outweigh the pleasures. STDs, pregnancy, etc.
D) Just because he wants to doesn't mean it's right and doesn't mean you want to. If you have to ask if it's OK, it's not OK.
E) Remember, if he is asking you, that means that all of the Seniors, all of the Juniors, and all of the Sophomores either rejected him, or were with him and didn't like it and broke up with him.
F) If you have a moral background, this is another reason. I am a Christian, and my moral background says to wait for sex until marriage. I not only follow that, but I know it is the best thing to wait. This guy might not be the one for you, and if he isn't, he is taking something away from you that you could have given to your husband after marriage.
Virginity is a powerful thing. You never will have to compare your future husband with this guy if you stay a virgin. Please, don't ruin it for you and your future husband. If he is the one, then he is worth the wait.
2006-11-15 06:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by nicholaswright2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is just stupid. this question is one of the most retarded I have ever encountered. I mean how you say "it will be fun" I'm sorry but that just sounds very immature and I think that answers your own question on if your maturity level is ready for sex. I don't think this is normal at all for a senior to take advantage of a mentally handicapped individual. I'm also not to sure if you think you are trying to be cool or sound pretty "rad" when you say codos, but I'm pretty sure that isn't in the English dictionary. oh yeah, kudos.
2006-11-15 06:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by stretchskeleton10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl where is your mom? what are you thinking about , you act as if your going to the movies or to the fun house. sex is very important, did you and him go get tested for std or aids. no I'm sure and what about birth control are any of these things on your mind, look your a real kid and should stay that way. he is older than you and i bet has had half the 12th grade girls . all he wants is your stuff so keep in school and stop trying to grow up fast because trust me life is a real hassle so what's the rush .
2006-11-15 06:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's ok if you want him to get in trouble..... If he is already 18 and you are clearly a minor, sex can lead to him being behind bars. Check the laws in your state.
On a second note...no it's not ok for you to have sex with anyone. You are far too young and further more your virginity is something that is special and should be saved for the man you are going to marry.... if you waste it on someone now.... you'll regret it later.
If he has said he loves you...he's just telling a lie. He is only saying what he needs to say to get your virginity... nothing more and nothing less.
Be smart! Wait!
2006-11-15 06:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A freshman shouldn't be having sex in the first place.....why cheapen yourself like that? Isn't your virginity worth more to you that some guy yoy have been dating for three months? Really, you do this and years down the road you will kick yourself.
VALUE YOURSELF AND YOUR BODY.....really - you gonna marry this guy? Is he gonna marry you if you get knocked up? If he RESPECTS and CARES for you....he wouldn't let you give yourself away to him. He's a teenage boy and all you really are underneath it all is someone to have sex with. Doesn't matter what he says.
Please, think hard. This is your body and your future. You may think he's worth it...bu hon - he's not. YOU are worth keeping yourself intact. I'd rather be seen as frigid than easy. Three months? That makes you easy.
2006-11-15 06:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by Jeniphish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do believe that you are not the age of consent and he could be in big trouble over this. You are too young to be in a sexual relationship anyway. I would wait until you find someone that you love before you give up anything and have aged a few more years. Don't be in such a rush.
2006-11-15 06:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, all it takes is compatible body parts...oh! wait! You mean socially...well, usually Freshman are taboo for Seniors...so what is up with this particular Senior? or does he have a history of sleeping with anyone willing to...your call...3 months, for me, is not long enough time to know a person well enough to find out how compatible I am with him...but what the heck, right?
Use a dang condom!
2006-11-15 06:47:59 · answer #8 · answered by nomming 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No No No...
Its totally your body and you can do whatever you want. True Your probably so head over heels for him. True. He treats you good and your ready. True.
Once you have sex you can never get that special time back in your life. True. Your only a virgin once. True. You can never get it back. True.
Most girls who have had sex wish they could get there first time back. Wait just a little longer if this guy really likes you he will wait for you.
2006-11-15 06:56:16 · answer #9 · answered by kaliprincess82 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say u should not look at ur options. Do u really think he care about u like that? Most seniors guys want the fresh meat coz they know it's so easy to get u. U should loose ur virginity to someone u know that will be love worthy. Listen to the lyfe jennings song called S.E.X. Think before u let it go ma.
2006-11-15 06:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by jayfrezzy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not!
You are jailbait honey and that 17 or 18 or 19 year old senior boy is going to find himself in prison for 20 years if he touches you!
2006-11-15 06:44:41 · answer #11 · answered by kja63 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋