Ok this is the story ok.This boy I go to church with loves me, But I don't even like him.After church I can't even talk to anyone because he thinks I have to go everywhere he goes.He ask me to go to his Suv.He gets mad at me when I talk to other guys.And he's getting on my last nerve.Please help me figure out what to do.
2006-11-15 06:30:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look sweetie, You sound a little young so I will give you a crash course...... Men who think they are in love are really in lust. Men who believe you are the one, means you are the one for that moment. Men who follow you around, will get tired. Just ignore him and tell him that you two are not dating..... unless you like him following you around?
2006-11-15 06:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him how you really feel about him. Ask him if you guys can just be friends right now. Tell him that your really not into him like he is into you and that if you guys don't feel the same about each other then you can't really be in a relationship together. Tell him "to be a couple and make a relationship last you both have to have the same feelings for each other." and right now you don't feel that way. I hope this helps. Good Luck.
2006-11-15 14:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Krissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys sounds like he is crazy. Don't go with him when he asks you to. You have the right to talk to whomever you wish to talk to , must of all you have the right to tell him to leave you a lone. You have to be firm with him and tell him that you are not interested, if he does not leave you a lone after you ask him to, then it is best to discuss it with a church authority and allow them to handle it.
2006-11-15 14:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont have the same feelings you should tell him but you have to remember that some people you have to be pretty blunt. but once he realizes that you reallly dont feel that way about him maybe he will get over it. It sounds like he is obsessive. Sorry it makes life so much harder with people like that.
2006-11-15 14:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
asa girl, i suggest u be nice to him, i mean as a friend, but at the same time tell him that u need your space and tell him to back off a bit - in a polite manner. he will understand then
plus, its ur lif, u can feel free to talk to whomever u wanna talk to, dont let him dictate ur life to you
tell him to back off a it and say it in a nice way
2006-11-15 14:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by Franky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you dont love him and if he still is torturing you, try going to a different church. He's probably desperate for someone, so tell him you're not the one.
2006-11-15 14:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lexus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stand up to this little boy and show him who is boss!! Tell him that you dont have any kind of interest in him and have no obligation to him. You can do what you want, how you want and when you want... he has NO power to control what you do... you need to let him know that. if you dont, he will forever have that power over you.
2006-11-15 14:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him 2 back off but in a nice way. its a shame u dont like him but your life has got to go on. he doesnt own u, i see no reason why he shuld be clingin to u like a bee to honey, and getting angry when you talk to other people. i feel sorry for him but its your love life not his.
2006-11-15 14:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by baby smurf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is getting the wrong impression. Perhaps he thinks you are playing hard to get. Just tell him that you don't like him like that. Don't be rude, just make it clear.
2006-11-15 14:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by CH@ cHI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is simple. Tell him to leave you the hell alone your not his girlfriend nor are you interested...Sometimes you have to be a bytch to get your point across
2006-11-15 14:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋