he says he loves me and i'm his life but why does he treat me so bad if he really does love me
2006-11-15 06:29:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he doesn't love you.
2006-11-15 06:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont like the way he treats you, you need to get on with your life. Why would you go through life with someone treating you poorly thats not fair to you. He treats you bad because you allow him to when you dont speak up when you stay in the situation you are telling him that is ok to treat me bad I dont deserve better, but you do. You sound like your young so you have plenty of time to meet new guys so try that leave this one alone
2006-11-15 14:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was probably treated this way and feels this is acceptable. Sit down and talk to him about it. If you stay with him and ignore it he will never learn otherwise. Would you want your best friend or child to settle for what you have? They have to want to change, you can not make them! Hard lesson to learn, but happiness comes to those who work for it and don't sit it the dark wishing for it.
2006-11-15 14:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by vkkesu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt love u he just wants u around i would leave my man in a second if he treated me bad tell him this actions speak louder than word's and ur actions prove to me i dont mean ne thing to u and if i do then ur words will be ur actions obviously he tells u want u want to hear but he does the opposite of what he says
2006-11-15 14:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Nena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was taught that treated a person bad is love, as a child, you need to redefine this with him how it makes you feel. It is not right.
2006-11-15 14:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by Tracy L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he don't, but he is just using "I love you" to keep you standing by his side until he's done with you. Or he might don't know what he has until you leave him to open his eyes. If you love after that than the future is in your hands.
2006-11-15 14:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by Lexie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does maybe he doesnt.....If he does he obviosly dont know how to show it in the right ways.......if he doesnt maybe doing this is a way to try and you to leave him so he doesnt leave you and break your heart....guys have a different way to show there feelings and sometimes its not in a good way.....sit him down and tell him how you feel and if that dont work put your felings down on paper and leave it in a place where he will find it.
2006-11-15 14:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by xxrlhoodratxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he treats u bad then sorry he doesn't love u
2006-11-15 14:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by Dianna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How does he treat you badly? Hurting you in any way?
If he hurts you, he doesn't love you. Do not let anyone physically hurt you or mentally hurt you. You are a team, it is not a dictatorship. Please, if he is hurting you, get out of there.
I don't see any other way of interpreting what you said.
2006-11-15 14:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by nicholaswright2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first see if he knos he treets u bad if he dos kno n still dos it tell him he dosnt lov u n leeve he deserves a 2nd chanse but if he messaes it up he only screwed himself
2006-11-15 14:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by scott_groen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alway's remember this it will help u n ne relationship u may have n the future .... (THERE IS NO SADDNESS IN LOVE) IF LOVE HURTS THEN IT ISN'T LOVE....
2006-11-15 14:37:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋