he yell's at me all tha time i can't never do anything right pushes me...we hit each other when were mad i just don't know what to do cause i love him so much
2006-11-15 06:27:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He does not love you, he does not even respect you! Dump him...fast!
2006-11-15 06:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam going to say this out right. Grow a backbone and leave him. It will be very difficult to change him. The big reason, he has to be willing to change, and mostly people dont like to change.
Dont stay with someone that dosnt treat you like a jewel, otherwise you'll never be one. Other people will tear you down, because you allow it. Staying in this relationship is one of those moments.
Just remember a woman should take care of a man, and a MAN SHOULD take care of the woman. If its only one sided then dont carry on any farther. Please understand and accept you are better than this relationship and get out and find someone you deserve (ugh spelling sorry lol)
2006-11-15 06:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguing is normal in a relationship but getting physical about it really is'nt right or healthy . If he really loves you and cares about you the same way you do about him. You all need to respect each other and try to talk things out instead of getting mad and hitting one another. If you love him so much like you say you do please try to make him make a difference in his life as well. Or just leave him. U dont sound like if you deserve something like that in your life. GOODLUCK :)
2006-11-15 06:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that it's completely unacceptable to hit you, but you need to not hit him either! Physical violence is not something involved in a loving relationship, EVER.
Talk to him and say you want the yelling and hitting to stop on both of your parts and you'll have to both work for it. Hold up your end of the bargain and if he doesn't hold up his, leave him before you really get hurt. He doesn't love you if he won't respect your wishes and continues to abuse you!!!
2006-11-15 06:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As whats her face would say "Honey, you need to leave him!" No guy, either all broad and no brain or all brain no broad, has the right to ever lay a finger on a woman. If you two really loved each other than there would be no conflict. Just Leave his A$$!!!
2006-11-15 06:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by Maverick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no honey!you better get away from him if he ever tries to even come close to hitting you because if he wants to marry you he could beat you to death when your married evn for the simplest little thing! evn if he appologizes and says he'll never do it again, 90% of thoughs men do it again.. get away fro him no matter how much you love him.
also if you break up with him he might try to hurt you so always have someone watching your back
2006-11-15 06:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by alinanonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love does not cause u to harm the person u love this is not true ifhe loved u he wouldnt touch u just as if u loved him u wouldnt touch him... now the only advice i could give to u is take a break and go see a specalist both of u either together or indivdual becuz it seems to me you both need a little bit of help
2006-11-15 06:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe "violent" is too harsh.. but it is 4 sure he doesn't respect u!!!! no matter what do no blame yourself! he is an idiot! you were supposed to have fun together not yelling all the time... you say you love him... think would you ever push, punch or yell at a person u really love??.....
2006-11-15 06:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are confused about what love is. Love is NOT hitting one another. Love is NOT putting eachother down. Love is NOT hurting eachother. My advise to you?? I think you need to leave this guy and both of you need some anger management.
2006-11-15 06:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wake up and face the facts that you're in an abusive relationship and that you need to hurry up and get out of it because it might be too late in the future.
2006-11-15 06:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave no guy should ever ever hit or push a woman. There is no exepition to this. He is a coward
2006-11-15 06:30:10 · answer #11 · answered by joe d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋