i love to give my bf hugs and i like to know where he is. i also get mad when he isnt where he says he is going to be
2006-11-15 06:26:17 · 18 answers · asked by vixen63_babygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way thats not clingy......You have every right to know where he is.......and if he lies to you then i would set him straight.....And there is nothin wrong with loving to give your boyfrind hugs....Its normal....I love my boyfrind to death and he hsnt lied to me yet that i know of...But he love to give me hugs as mach as i love to give them to him.....thats just how we are...it also depends on the guy.....so jus tell him how you feel and maybe things will change......and if he leaves you obviosly you guys werent meant to be together.
2006-11-15 06:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by xxrlhoodratxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? Are you sure it is love and not just infatuation? You could be like me and clingy. I like to show affection too. I'm also very insecure and worried about cheating eventhough there's no indication that is happening. What I have to do is always remember that life is full of possibilities and its not the end of the world if my guy isn't with me or where I think he should be. Now, if you find he's lying about being somewhere, then you might have to step back from the relationship so you can figure out what he wants from you. You could have a great thing going if you give it time and give him his space.
2006-11-15 14:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by johannacass@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clingy
2006-11-15 14:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre not clingy, but some what in love. if you have to question where he is, when hes not where he tells you then you are in suspicsion of him cheating on you. the odds are that he just might be. you can question his actions if he is cheating. if u live 2gether and he doesnt get home till 2am(if he works all day), and then talks on the phone with someone, be suspicious cause he could be talilking to the other woman. (there's nothing wrong with giving someone a hug)
2006-11-15 14:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by blue_princess_angel1492 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. Hugs are good. Knowing where he's at is comforting. Finding out where he is after he's told you another place (that's how you know he's lying I suppose) is clingy. That is probably why he does it, a rebellion of sorts.
2006-11-15 14:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
giving him hugs is fine. insisting that you know where he is at all times is a little possessive and clingy. give him some space and let the two of you function as independent beings, not one co-dependent unit.
2006-11-15 14:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who doesn't like to give their boyfriend hugs? but if you're needing to know where he is all the time, you're too clingy. also, if you're questioning whether or not you're clingy, then you probably are.
2006-11-15 14:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by TDiddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not clingy or in love.. Sorry to say that you're borderline Psycho and he should get as far away as possible because then you'll start thinking like, "no one can have you," and "if I can't have you no one else will," You know stuff like that that'll land you in jail or in a Psych ward.
2006-11-15 14:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sounds clingy to me girlfriend. the hugs are o.k. but why do you have to know where he is every minute? you sound insecure with your relationship. any ways, do you want to tell him every time you go to the bathroom?!
2006-11-15 14:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by gypsywitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in love very much,but beetter bcos u guys are ment for each other and makes him resist temptation from others
2006-11-15 14:37:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋