i am a boy and i am 21, i have got a girlfriend who is very deep in love with me, i love her but not that much, you know what i mean, i am about to visit her in another city, i have not visited her for the past 11 month, she wants me to have sex ( she does not want to be a virgin ), her father is very district ( works in militery ) and she has got a religious family, should i visit her? if her father knows anything about our trip, he would kill us.
2006-11-15 06:24:45 · 9 answers · asked by garry smith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say go if she wants 2 who r u 2 take it away from her it woud b best if she is wit u then sombody els it makes it mor memorable
2006-11-15 06:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by scott_groen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...I believe that you should visit her. But, don't have sex with her. If you don't love her as much as she loves you, it would be wrong to take her virginity. She will just get attached to you and bother you!
2006-11-15 14:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by ..::Sierra::.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea ! play dumb and visit. But take special note of how you are treated. These people may be part of your family. are they bigots or zealots, do they fight get drunk. BUT make sure she is 18 and no sex in the parents house.
2006-11-15 14:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her religion says that you can only have sex when you married tell her that you respect that rule and so should she also tell her that you respect her father too much to go against him. lol
aand to throw her off you could say that you want to be smart and have sex only to the one you SURE bout marring
2006-11-15 14:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by alinanonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question practically by saying you love her but NOT THAT MUCH. So why risk hurting her and maybe her family also. Respect her and let her know how you feel truly feel.
2006-11-15 15:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lf you dont love her the way she loves you then dont take something so presouis from her. dont go if your having second thought about it. think about whats best for her
2006-11-15 14:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jessick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in that case no don;t go if you think her father will kill you i mean does it worth your life think about it
2006-11-15 14:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.no and no. If you do you are just asking for trouble and believe me it will answer.
2006-11-15 15:17:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't wanna go....don't
2006-11-15 14:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by Dianna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋