2006-11-15 06:16:11 · 32 answers · asked by Derrick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to respect her choice and wait. If you love her and want to marry her you will, otherwise you need to move on.
2006-11-15 06:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't, Respect her choice. She sees it as a great gift to give on her honey-moon night. Like the night two hearts finally come together as one..If you have a problem with that then try some other loose chick. Don't be an asshole to her either..because most guys try that if you love me bullshit and it gives nice guy bad names. Sex isn't everything, you can get off just as much by kisisng her or touching, Just need to build up the mental love first..and sex won't seem like that big of a deal..more power to her
2006-11-15 06:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by xonexnxonlyandyx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't respect her and her decision, move on. She should choose her own life, and you must choose yours. There are guys who will appreciate her decision. Not all girls or guys either choose to give that first time before the wedding night. That should be a respected decision because not everyone has that kind of self-control.
2006-11-15 06:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by kradori_hyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to wait till she is ready. Besides, are you planning of dumping her after sex before marriage? Not a wise idea!
2006-11-15 06:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by Inquirer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, move on. Stay away from virgin chicks. They are bad lays unless you're into the whole "I want to be her first" type of thing. Date older chicks because more often than not they don't play things and they might teach you a trick or 2 in bed.
2006-11-15 06:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by Charlie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are you knew she wanted to wait either before she became your girlfriend, or shortly thereafter...therefore you've no right to try to "get her to want to have sex"...all you'd be doing is causing her to feel badly about what she'd done and that she didn't keep her vow to herself...
If sex is that important to you, then break up with her, and find someone who feels as you do about it...but don't try to sway someone else...especially when their stance is no surprise to you...be proud she's taking a responsible route...few people do...
2006-11-15 06:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find the fact that you even posted this question a little disturbing, especially if she is considering spending the rest of her life with you. You should in no way try to force or encourage someone to have sexual relations before they are ready... EVER!!
2006-11-15 06:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by mmott1029 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't make her want to have sex so all u will ahve to do is be sexy and after a week if she still feels the same u two r not meant for eachother!
2006-11-15 06:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by da man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to wait then you should let her wait till marrage!!! RESPECT what she believes!!!
2006-11-15 06:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ LISSA ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with waiting til marriage? Do you plan on being the one she marries, or are you just trying to get in her pants? If you plan on marrying her, then wait! If not, end it now, because she deserves better!
2006-11-15 06:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by Gramms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋