I've been talking to this girl that I met online now for about 2 yrs but still have not met her in person, I only seen a picture..She lives in another state then I do. Whenever we talk on the phone our conversations are rather dead, "what you doing, how is the weather there, what did you eat".....LOL....Anyway, whenever I bring the idea up about meeting, she always bring up an excuse about how busy she is or the time isnt right......
I have suspiciouses that she may be talking to someone else too because just about EVERYTIME we are on the phone, she will get a text msg then she says, "let me call you back".....I mean, EVERYTIME...Not only that, one time she wrote me a letter and had the nerve to put someone elses last name on the thing.....She told me that she thought I told her that was my last name....BULL!!!!
2006-11-15 06:12:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She sounds like she is probably communicating with MANY men and possibly even married. You're right to be suspicious when she won't give you a straight answer or avoids answering you directly. She clearly isn't open to moving forward, so you either have to accept that and keep things as is, or just move on.
I find that when you think something's off about someone or a relationship, you're usually right. Listen to your gut and don't ignore the red flags!! You deserve better.
2006-11-15 06:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok buddy.... first of all she probly thinks that you are just friends and doesnt want to get any closer to you. If you have only met online and the phone and its been two years do you really think that it is going to go any farther??? No probly not..... and if she always says that she is busy when you want to meet her she probly isnt interested in meeting you so stop asking her... Move on.
2006-11-15 14:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forget her, she sounds like a total lameass. She doesn't sound like she is making any sense. maybe join yahoo personals to find someone new to chat with online?
2006-11-15 14:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by stretchskeleton10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cud be two things....
Either shes been trying to lose weight so she can look better.... and is playing hide n seek with u :)
Or, shes confused about your importance in her life.
2006-11-15 14:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by novembr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to give up on this quest. She will just be the e-mail buddy.
2006-11-15 14:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try someone you actually meet.. Get out and party man.. You will defently meet girls
2006-11-15 14:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by Dylan Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's obviously a player - move on - forget her. Your probably one of many men in her electronic world
2006-11-15 14:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI DOES NOT SOUND TOO GOOD...SEEMS TO ME YOU SHOULD OF ALREADY MET HER...DOES NOT SOUND LIKE SHE IS SEROUS AT ALL OTHER WISE SHE WOULD BE TAKING THE TIME WITH YOU ...YUP REALLY SOUNDS LIKE OTHERS ARE IN HER LIFE ...DO NOT SPEND SO MUCH OF YOUR ENERGY ON THIS PERSON DOES NOT SOUND LIKE SHES SEROUS
2006-11-15 14:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She dont want you.Maybe its not personal,,maybe she just doesnt want to meet someone from on-line.
2006-11-15 14:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget about her she is not interested in u... she is doin her just like u should be doin u
2006-11-15 14:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by Nena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋