cheer me up please..i am crying at the moment..i am so lonely,most of my friends are two faced and i am not close to them any longer..i feel terrible ...i like this guy he doesnt like me..or see me in that way he sees me as a friend...my family is no where around me and i have no one to be really genuine with..i can have fun with some people but i can't go deep like being sincere with them...please help..
2006-11-15 05:47:36 · 13 answers · asked by patme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hello,first of dry ur tears and smile!!!lonelyness can be horrible i know exactly wat u say about most of ur friends been 2faced im in the same boat as u,have u heard a saying(friends r ppl who u think r ur friends but really ur enemies with secret identitys)iv found that to be so true!the older u get u may find the colder ppl become espesially ur so called friends,good friends r hard to find in this day and age well for me anyway!if u like some1 and they dont like u in the same way then there aint much u can do about that,but when u do find that person it will be great u will be happy especially if they will love u for who u r as a person coz thats all that counts u know!as for family not been around well thats the same for me im almost 21 and i know how it feels not to have ur family around i have 1brother but he lives far away from were i am and my friends r like urs not true friends wich sucks,as another saying goes (keep ur friends close and ur enemies closer) and that also seems to be true in my case,but theres not much u can do about that either life is cruel sometimes,just try and smile and be happy its alot easyer said than done but try!!!!!SMILExxx
2006-11-15 06:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by smokey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there, its going to be ok. You are an absolutely good person and those two faced people don't deserve you. Does this happen to you alot, I mean feeling so lonely and crying? Its ok to go to your doctor and tell them what's been happening.
Go for a walk, take lots of deep breaths, have a healthy snack, orange juice or something, and that will refresh you ok?
Is there a place you can try hanging out to meet new people? A social thing thru school or work?
It will get better I promise you. These times feel horrible but they DO pass. Soon you will find the people you should really be around and they will be so happy to meet you. They will give you respect and you'll be close. It will happen.
Put these toads out of your mind and think of the future, Imagine the kind of friends/family you would like to have around you.
God Bless you, take care of yourself, things are going to improve.
2006-11-15 05:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by alwayslarat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I felt the same way because I only have one friend now and I don't plan on having anymore. I am currently in a relationship but due to my work hour we don't see each other like we used too. I told myself that all I need is myself because its really hard to be hurt by myself. Maybe you should go out more or find a hobby like dancing , take classes or something to occupy yourself. I hope you feel better hopefully you won't feel like this for long.
2006-11-15 05:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by KeKe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know and sympathize with you on the two faced part... you need to remember that these people are not really your friends if they are going behind your back. Its not your fault they do that, about the boy try to make him see you as less of a friend and more of a girlfriend, have someone to talk to is a big problem to me also, you need to find a person willing to listen.
2006-11-15 05:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by saraikyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up chick have a good cry you'll feel better for it and some happy music to have a sing along to always helps me.
Hope thinks look better soon half the time they never as bad as they seem easy to say I know but it's true. x x x
2006-11-15 06:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by Tulip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate two faced people and they're mainly girls, so i started hanging out with boys who are honest and are up for laughs all the time. I hadn't had a boyfriend in forever until i started hanging out with boys cos they got to see the real me and not the girl who was trying to fit in with her mates. Try boys as mates...they're just as good mates as girls but without the bitchy two facedness (not all girls are two-faced, just the girls i know and call 'friends') cheer up, dont cry. Tomorrow, do your make up, do your hair and talk to some people who you dont really know and become mates...but you HAVE to be yourself 100% or your gonna feel like this for a while, turst me...i only just went through this and it was the best thing that ever happened to me:)
2006-11-15 05:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I AM HERE TO CHEER YOU UP ....WE ALL HAVE LONELY DAYS THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS GET BUSY WITH YOUR SELF ...DO SOMETHING THAT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER ..LIKE TAKE IN A MOVIE ...CALL SOMEONE THAT YOU KNOW THAT MY NEED A FRIEND TOO ...VOLUNTEER TO DO SOMETHING FOR A NEEDY PERSON AND YOU WILL FEEL MUCH BETTER HANG IN THERE THIS TOO SHALL PASS...REMEMBER THERE IS LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL TC
2006-11-15 05:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop feelin sorry for ya self get out there join some clubs do some courses of things that interest u then u will meet ppl with common interests the world wont come to u u have to go out into the world
2006-11-15 05:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the movies Go to the mall, if you feel like going nowhere go to bed with a good movie favorite snack a beer and relax it is going to be okay if not today another day! Everyday is not going to be a good one
2006-11-15 05:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by jkfranklin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a bag of easter eggs and roll them under the doors at the public toilets.
2006-11-15 05:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋