This is the first time I've met my childs teachers at his pre-school and I don't like their vibes even though they treat my boy well. What do I do to get over it?
2006-11-15 05:47:29 · 7 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
maybe I don't like their vibes because they don't like me or they try to like me but their faking it or something. I can't really tell.
2006-11-15 05:49:26 · update #1
They didn't even appreciate me for bringing cake and goody bags/balloons to school for his birthday today.
2006-11-15 05:51:13 · update #2
Usually my spouse picks him up from school but this is the first time I've met them at his birthday party.
2006-11-15 05:52:12 · update #3
Go with your feeling. If you don't feel comfortable, switch teachers. You don't want the teacher to know that you don't click with them because they could turn the negativity towards your child. I've been a daycare teacher for 16 years.
2006-11-15 06:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, dealing with fake people isn't very fun, if that's what his teacher is doing. But just take into consideration of how they treat your son. If they treat him well, try to work with them. Sometimes is nervous meeting parents (from a teacher's perspective) because they have certain standards they want met. When you have 20 something parents that expect different things, it's hard to meet the demand. I'm sure you'll get warmed up to them eventually and once the teacher gets to know you better, you might find they weren't fake at all. Best of luck!
2006-11-15 13:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon L - Gavin's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! That happened to me a few times, I don't believe that teachers should get aggressive until the children hit 3rd or 4th grade so when my son was in 2nd and under I spoke my mind, being a PTA mom is fine and all, that's what I call a goodie goodie, but you have to remember your child is helpless don't let anyone talk to them or treat them any kind of way.
I tell everyone including family "I can kill them but you had better not even pluck them", and that gets the point across real clear.
2006-11-15 13:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just keep being polite as it is a reflection on your son and you did say they were good to him. Keep going to the school and try to get better acquainted with each of them-after all we really should know who our children are spending their days with. You may have a problem because of your own issues but maybe its a gut reaction to something unnoticed yet so like i said keep getting to know them as much as you can.
2006-11-15 13:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by ~♥ L ♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mother's intuition is hard to ignore. Maybe you should try looking into some new schools....
2006-11-15 13:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by Angie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile politely and learn to live with it. He will move on to another class soon enough.
2006-11-15 13:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by huggz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not important for you to like the teacher and vice versa. its inportant how she treats your child deal with it you wont like everyone who crosses your path
2006-11-15 13:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋