cant find a woman got loads of female friends fed up watching them go out with idiots and get screwed over then they moan that all men are idioys lol!!
2006-11-15 05:47:19 · 21 answers · asked by paul265116 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not that women like the bad blokes - it is just that the bad blokes make them feel so good (at first ofcourse).. it is the bad blokes who tell them how great they look/are, who take them places etc and do all the chasing at first..
Often nice guys won't be so full on and quite often women interpret the considered approach of nice blokes to mean that they are not interested or indifferent..
Most women would ditch a bloke once they found out he was not all he seemed and unfortunately that cannot always be easy to establish - the bad blokes are good at leading double lives/lying etc
FTR - most women just want a bloke who loves them and who they can love..they want to care for/be cared for/ they want to know their partner only has eyes for them..
So hang in there - if you are a genuinely nice bloke you will meet someone and she will thank her lucky stars you are not an idiot.. BUT as I say don't wait for her to come to you, next time take a chance and put more effort into the wooing stage.
2006-11-15 05:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we do like "nice guys" but like the saying"nice guys finish last". I dont know why it takes us girls so long to realize that the guys we are attracted to are always the "bad boys". I always went after the bad boys cause the was what the other girls did, but after being screwwed over many times, it hit me....Watch out for the good guys....sweet, kind, loyal, honest and most of the times your really good friend. I got a "nice guy" and have been married to him for 16 years. Keep watching and waiting , the perfect girl will realize oneday, like me and find you...her "great-guy".
2006-11-15 13:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by sweet4saucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never date a cocky idiot whats the point. i would like to meet a nice guy but hey where are they all. and as for the female friends you have who keep moaning when things go wrong with the idiot guys well just tell them to stop dating total #rses. hooray for nice guys i say !!!!
2006-11-15 14:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they like getting screwed over. As you say it gives them an excuse to moan that all men are idiots.
2006-11-15 13:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like men who treat them with respect and make them feel safe. I don't really care for nice guys or cocky idiots. I like men who are either military(current or retired) or ride motorcycles. I don't like having to protect my date when goes mouthing off & writing check with his mouth his a@# can't cash. I want to be a lady not the bouncer!
2006-11-15 23:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by Julia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me about it! It would appear that they do prefer idiots - probably for their confidence, but that they generally choose a nice one to settle down with. I'm still waiting on the second part of that to bear out!
2006-11-15 13:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by somekindahero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married to a "nice guy" for 15 years now...And I guess sometimes he just annoys me because he isn't very challenging...He always agrees with me, we hardly ever argue, and in general he just seems to never have an opinion about anything!...I wish sometimes he would just grow a spine and give me a good fight sometimes....And too, many of my guy friends are "nice guys" too...they are fun to hang out with and they are safe...But the "bad" boys are still more interesting and challenging...Try for something in the middle...
2006-11-15 13:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are correct mate . i got lots of female friends and they like to have these sods as their boy friends. most of the women like appearance rather than inner self.
i think its some thing to do with opposite sex ..where generally most of the women are more timid and they are not good decision makers. which makes their life more uncomfortable when it comes to choose men. where most of the cocky guys are not afraid to ask a woman out . and most of the nice guys think a lot before asking a women. Like whether she will refuse me or not !!..... will she embarrass me in front of some one ....or will i hurt her feelings and loos my friendship with her ...like that .
its very difficult for a women to choose a nice guy .That's what i think
2006-11-15 14:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by man123470 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that i am only attracted to "nice" or "shy" looking guys... a guy who seems like he has a whole world to himself and if youre special, he will let you in. In my experience, the girls who go for the bad boy are insecure or dont like something about themselves, their life, and these guys make it more interesting. Oddly enough, i am good friends with the bad boys in my class and then never treat me badly, although i get the full stories of how badly they treat their girfriends! seems you cant change them...
2006-11-15 13:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by prettyflower17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a guy that is nice of couse and not cocky, but there is a difference between nice and too nice. I had this guy friend that liked me but I started to hate him because he agreed with everything I said and it was just annoying. we dont want to play copy cat or date a wuss.
2006-11-15 13:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋