i am an average-looking independent female that cannot seem to find a decent male companion. i work in the public eye, therefore i meet alot of males. i am constantly complimented by those individuals yet no one besides the drug addicts and elderly men ever approach me(by the way i am 36). everyone always compliments me on my attitudes and my people skills, i.e. i am very popular. i am not dumb either. so help me! tell me what is wrong with me.
2006-11-15 05:41:52 · 8 answers · asked by altimate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are sometimes intimidated by strong, independent and professional women. Maybe you need a change in venue. Let your vulnerable side show. Flirt a little! Just put yourself out there and see what happens. (but somewhere other than work) Let's face it, the public eye is not a good place to connect.
2006-11-15 05:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by AileneWright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though nothing is wrong with you. Maybe it's how you carry yourself. The attire you wear as well as the attitude that you exert. Possibly, it could be that your standards are quite elevated and no one can reach them. My opinion is, you may need to evaluate yourself more and this answer will probably surface. If all else fails, patience could be the factor, wait on GOD to send him to you.
2006-11-15 13:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by Leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl there is nothing wrong with you.....the same exact thing happens to me all the time.....just be patient and it will come to you when u least expect it. Good Luck on your search!!!
2006-11-15 13:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by unique_pr_cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way a year and a half ago..but then I met my guy..give it time...and dont look the right one will come..
2006-11-15 13:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you....timing is just off...36 isnt old ...no need to worry about finding the perfect man soon... he will come...but when its time...keep doing what you do and just be yourself, all good things come to those who wait....
2006-11-15 13:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most males do not like independent women it scares them. they like someone who is insecure and cannot think on their own. you may just be to educated and independent for them.
2006-11-15 13:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't met me yet.
2006-11-15 13:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mail me..........u toooo like me.........
2006-11-15 13:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋