I have a choice to make. Go to Reading and live in a not so nice house, with my 15mth old twins in nursery 2-3 days a week, and me working part time, hubbie commuting to and from NE London daily....OR...should I stay in Swansea and look after my twins in a nicer house with support of my Mum and sister and good pal near by, and hubbie commuting back from London on weekends (he has 30 days annual leave which is good). Need to buy a house either way as currently live with Mum cos Dad died 3 months ago. Help me decide please!!!
2006-11-15 05:17:36 · 11 answers · asked by nickymattmz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you need to ask then I'd say stay where you are, at least until you know 100% that hubbie is going to stay in the new job, (it is a new job I guess?) House prices are way too high at the moment, and you'll get more for your money in Swansea, I live in Reading, and apart from the local Radio Station, Readings Poo. The Schools are not brilliant, though saying that, you've got Reading Boys and Kendrick, two of the best in the country. Its the rest of them that are no good. Where abouts in Reading is the 'not so nice house'? Emmer Green? OK. Caversham? parts of it are OK, Whitley? Dump, I know I live there, at least 'till I win the Lotto, then I'm off. On the plus side, Reading has plenty to offer the mum working part time with two youngsters. But if its shop work your after, try to avoid the 'bottom slapping' store in Lower Arley, the women on customer services need to brush up on their PR, if you get my meaning. Good luck with the decision making, and please ask if you want to know anything in particular about Reading
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2016-11-29 04:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by broadway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its your decision to make alone, I think a long discusion with the hubbie and see what u come up with.
How about renting in Swansea and see how it works with the hubbie only back at the weekends, he might not like having to leave his family for the week and you might not like having him away?
Then again a not so nice house with you and the kiddies and the hubbie altogether in the same place every night sounds a lot better than the first.
2006-11-15 05:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by kate 0504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would stay put,there's no point uprooting ur family if its doesn't make it easier on u.Its always good 2 have a supportive family nearby.I just moved back 2 my hometown a year,its gr8 having my family near,id never move away.At the end of the day it's a decision u and ur husband should make 2gether,weigh up the pros and cons.Good Luck.
2006-11-15 05:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Princess Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say let your hubby commute back and forth and come back on weekends. you'll have the support you need with your family while he is gone. sounds like a much pleasing life this way. you are going to be buying your own home with hubby, soon i hope, and then things can get back to being a family life for him. he'll be so happy to have his family back again, he'll appreciate you more. good luck.
2006-11-15 05:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,I would stay in swansea.Sorry for the loss of your dad,my mam died last month.My hubby works abroad its tough however we hope to get the morgage paid off, then he can look for a job here.What ever you decide Good Luck.
2006-11-15 05:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess it depends on how strong your marriage is and if you are both secure in the knowledge that no matter how lonely you both get you won't sleep with anyone else...if you are secure i would stay with your mum that way you can save more for your house, your mum has company and you get help with the kids...plus when hubby comes to see you your mum can babysit
2006-11-15 08:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have move where your hubby is with the family 2 days a week???????
That isn't good. FIX up the house in Reading!!!!!! and keep your husband in your bed everynight instead of some slags.
2006-11-15 05:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to go with your husband if you want your marriage to last. He needs to know you put him above everyone else. Otherwise, maybe it's your husband who need to put the family first and look for work closer to your mum and sister, as I can understand you want to be close to them at such a difficult time. Work it out WITH him.
2006-11-16 03:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by Lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to be near your mum and sis right now..doesn't mean you can't move to reading later does it? sorry for your loss honey x
2006-11-15 05:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by minerva 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋