My ex passed his driving test yesterday!
i bought him a keyholder (as a present) before we broke up, i was wondering what he would think if i just send it to him????? We are trying to be friends ! he is back with his ex.
should i send it and what should it say in the card????
something short, sweet & cute???
please help me, i have messed things up enough, kinde would like him back... but not when he is has a stable loving relationship, and i dont want to look desprite, just want him to remeber how sweet i was....
2006-11-15 05:13:39 · 16 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he will always remember how sweet you are, but it won't be so sweet if he thinks you are stalking him
2006-11-15 05:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by dcktbm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simone - My advice would be to keep the keyholder as a memento,it's sometimes difficult to move forward but we must go on with life.!!!
His ex will most probably find out if you send it and their will be a confrontation which will make you look bad, like you are trying to destroy their relationship.!!!
Good Luck and be strong,somebody else will come along.!!!
2006-11-16 02:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by JAM123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont send it!!! it would really piss his misses off. How about a phone call instead? A quick, 'Hi, heard you passed your test! Well Done!' would be enough. As for getting back with him, he is back with another ex???? Move on! He sounds like a bit of a player.
2006-11-15 13:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by ally_2802 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give him the gift. I mean its a nice gesture and I would keep the message in the card short and sweet. And I wouldn't worry about the grilfriend and how she would react. Because if he still wants you in his life but as a friend then she has got to accept that. so I say give it to him.
2006-11-15 13:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's nothing wrong with you sending him the key holder if you are still friends,i think it's sad that you can spend special times with someone and not stay friends when the relationship ends,i'm friends with all my ex boyfriends and my boyfriend accepts that.
if he gets back in touch to say thanks just leave it at that,he knows where you are if he wants you
good luck x
2006-11-15 13:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by Bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself the postage and cost of a card and throw it in the trash.
That is where he or his missus will chuck it when you send it there.
Would you want your boyfriend receiving gifts from a woman that wants him back?
2006-11-15 13:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by f1antasyman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not send it.You may end up in hot water especially has he is back with his ex.You get out & meet some one nice.Good Luck
2006-11-15 13:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ollie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should do anything,I think you should back off now,he's back with his ex so he has made his choice.
It would 'nt look cute or sweet to get in touch again.
2006-11-15 13:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Pat R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can send him it if u want but i doubt if his gf would let him use it because if i was her i wouldnt!!!!!
I say forget about him and move on saving the key holder for the next bf or just bin it
2006-11-15 13:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by kate 0504 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Send it to him and say he have the key that fitted the keyring and it was to your heart but now he has is Ex and his new car. Wish him every success in the future and he will be at your feet in 2 days minimum.
2006-11-15 13:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by Steven W 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tricky one
If you send it to him his GF might not be too impressed and it could cause trouble. But you are just a friend
I would send it so everytime he uses it he remembers you
Good Luck
Jeff
2006-11-15 13:21:02 · answer #11 · answered by JEFF K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋