Is it not staying in touch at all or being in touch but being a little distant always? Or is it something else altogether... need some ideas!
2006-11-15 05:11:34 · 35 answers · asked by gorgeous_ami 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him out on a date, Go out of your way to bowl him over & then keep some distance but dont let it show that its intentional. He will go crazy missing you
2006-11-15 05:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mock-mast 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say buy being in touch but being a little distant alway is the best way to get him to miss you. Because if you don't keep in touch altogether even though it will still be difficult for him eventually he will get over you.
2006-11-15 05:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You miss someone for who they are.
For me, not staying in touch would tell me that you do not care. Being a little distant would make me think that you only like me a bit.
The best thing to do is to be yourself. If you are apart from your lover, reminisce with him and talk about what you will do when you are together. That will keep both of your hearts going until you can be together again.
If you have to work to make him miss you, then you are working on the wrong guy.
Take care,
Troy
2006-11-15 05:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A person who truely loves you will miss you every moment when you are not around.The truth is that we dont have to do anything to make someone miss us.As for you,i suggest to simply sit back and relax for a while.Get involved in things or activities that fascinate you.do things that will make you happy instead of making someone else miss you.If they Love you,they will miss you for sure.If this doesnt work for you,then act busy when this desirable person calls.its wise to set a timer to go off a few minutes later,then recite a memorized exit line,such as,"sorry,gotta go.I have million things to do."Identify what you love to do, and do it- a lot.Busy people really are more attractive.God Bless.
2006-11-15 05:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would say if you kept a cold keg of good beer in your fridge and he knew that you had that there and he didnt hear from you he would probably miss the beer and as a result sort of miss you too since you had the beer but other than that hard to make a guy miss you. theres just too many good diversions nowadays between 500 cable channels, video games, the internet etc. etc. to waste time missing someone. its a great time to be alive!
2006-11-15 05:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think an effective way is to be next to him when he's there. Be close, then when he's away...he misses me. I don't like to smother or bother him whatsoever. Sometimes, an effective way is to pretend he's not even there, that way he misses the attention we give eachother, and he'll do the silliest things just to get me to notice him. He makes me laugh! lol
2006-11-15 05:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by theskyisthelimit02 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dangerous game to play is brinkmanship. However, if you are determined on this course, my best advice would be to maintain good contact, but once in a while (as in very couple of weeks) do not be available for a date.
Do not overdo it or you do so at your own risk.
2006-11-15 05:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by steven b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better think real hard about what your doing, cause if you stay away from him thinking he'll miss you.... Well it could backfire and he could move on or get over you.. Then it will be your lost.. Better ease up on the games and just be happy together.
2006-11-15 05:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Having a life of your own, and not dropping everything you've already planned just cos he wants to see you. But you need to be in touch.
2006-11-15 05:14:58 · answer #9 · answered by teary chocolate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would question the reason that you want him to miss you. If you two are really into each other, you don't need to play games like that.
2006-11-15 05:13:18 · answer #10 · answered by zyllee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋