Does any of you ladies care to explain why some females will not talk to a guy simply because the female thinks the guy (based on looks), may look at himself as being "too good" or "high on himself", anything like that. And all of this judgement is done without even talking to the guy and/or getting to know him.
Now the twist to it all is basically/kind of vis versa......If a guy approaches a female to maybe have a conversation then the female is the one that's acting stuck up and if she doesnt want to be approached......I dont understand, maybe its just the Mississippi ********* :-/
2006-11-15 05:07:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, many decisions are made by one's first impression and often they are based on looks. If a woman will not talk to a guy because she thinks he's "too good", it's because she lacks confidence in herself. She is self conscious about her own looks and therefore chooses not to take a chance of being shunned by him. Rejection is the worst possible hurt...especially for those of us who lack confidence in ourselves and take it to heart. Believe me, if this same guy approached the woman instead, this lady would be on cloud 9! But she won't take the initiative to put herself out there because the risk is too great and the consequences could be devastating.
It's a double standard, isn't it? Guys are supposed to accept rejection without question and not be hurt by it. Grown men don't cry and all they want to do by talking to us is to get into our pants. God forbid they might actually want to have a conversation and get to know us...maybe forge even a friendship. It just doesn't happen that way. Besides, we're better than that! We won't give them the chance. Women can be quite cruel.
2006-11-15 05:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by AileneWright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls go by what they see not what is on the inside of a guy, i know alot of girls from here in Louisiana where i live that are like. Girls are just scared to get hurt by guys and we dont let our guard down to really see you from the inside. I have been to mississippi that is where my husband is stationed at and i dont know any girls over there so i cant say nothing about that.
2006-11-15 05:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kayla P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do that because they are scared that they will get into a bad relationship so they don't act like they are interested, when really they might be. I don't like judgeing people by how they look because thats wrong and whoever judged you like that is really f***ed up. I try to get to know the person before I judge them. All girl have to have at least one bad relationship in there lifetime and they are just scared to get into another bad relationship and they are just perinoid that there gonna get hurt again. Hope this helps you.
2006-11-15 05:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me? That remark about "Mississippi bull.." gave away your problem, Dude. Southern women like kind and courteous men. Why don't you try it cause it surely doesn't appear that you've been to charm school, Homie. Women can smell a smarta*ss man a mile away. Good luck, Stud.
2006-11-15 05:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens no matter where you live. I guess its not so much a thing of Im not good enough for him. Its more like we dont want to be bothered with having to compliment him as much as we enjoy being complimented. We dont want a guy that takes longer to get ready then we do
2006-11-15 05:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 09:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by konen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't u no? its just in the nature of mankind that men have 2 be humble and go themselves talk 2 a girl, while the girl would do as if she doesnt really care and wouldn't give him any importance, but let me tell u man the truth is that she would be very happy from the inside and her heart would be going really fast at his presence ;)
2006-11-15 05:14:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it IS just the mississippi...becasue where i live, I've never seen the issue,
2006-11-15 05:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know its just our instincts trying to protect us from getting hurt and falling for the wrong type or person. of course its wrong to 'judge a book by its cover' but we all do it.
2006-11-15 05:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by bambi..♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They feel afraid to open up and get hurts.
2006-11-15 05:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by Blue Moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋