Background story:
I had just gotten out of a serious relationship in June and started casually seeing this guy. Things started to get a little more serious but I was still unable to commit. I asked him to give me until Christmas to get all my issues straightened out. Things seemed to be going really well.
Two days ago, we were supposed to hang out but things came up and neither of us were able to. And then this morning, I read an email that he sent me late last night. It basically says that he is giving up and that he wants to start a relationship with another woman who is able to commit. The news of this other woman is completely out of left field! We had talked alot about how honesty was important in a relationship and I had even been completely honest about my feelings about my ex but it seems that he has been developing a relationship with someone else while allowing me to believe that we were exclusive. Should I be angry?! Upset?! I feel that way but is it justified?!
2006-11-15 05:07:38 · 6 answers · asked by amaranth_86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First- it was pretty chicken poopie of him to dump you through an e-mail. With that said:
It was YOU that didn't want a commitment which means he wasn't committed to you. He had every right to see whoever he wanted and if he wants to commit to someone else, then he has every right to let you go. Maybe next time wait to even start a relationship until you're ready to BE in a relationship.
2006-11-15 05:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
However you feel is how you should react - no-one can tell you any differently!
Personally as a man in the same situation I would be angry and upset, but also saddened and betrayed also.
In time however, I - like you - would realise I had had a lucky escape from someone who was not worthy of my trust in the first place.
My sympathy, but move on and find someone who will cherish you as you deserve. X
2006-11-15 05:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by steven b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey jus chill even u can get a new guy
2006-11-15 05:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by maddy316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should of put out more!
2006-11-15 05:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by MIKE D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
angry
2006-11-15 05:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should be upset he lied..and you should be relieved that you didn't get in to deep with this jerk
2006-11-15 05:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by dan d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋