Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a year now. He came home from school and told me that he hung out with one of his freinds(which is a girl). I have seen her and she is really pretty and he thinks so too. Well he came home and told me that he hung out with her in this music room they have at school. He told me that he saw her and invited her up to see if she wanted to listen to some music with him. She thinks my boyfriend is really cute so she agreed to go up with him. Now i really trust my boyfriend but when i heard that he did that i was really hurt. He said he didnt do anything with her and just talked and didnt touch her or anything. But she is really pretty and my boyfreind is handsome and they used to like each other. He said it was only talking and that she was in the room for 20 minutes or so and then left. I love him so much but that really hurt and was wondering if it was right to be jealous and if I should break up with him?
2006-11-15 04:42:25 · 21 answers · asked by birdistheword 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has never done anything in the past that would make you not trust him, it isn't worth getting mad over. Don't worry about it until you see him do something or he tells you something happened. Also, do not listen to what anyone else says, they may be trying to get you two to break up (just a little peice of advice). He can talk to other girls, don't worry about it for now.
2006-11-15 04:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by theprincess451 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He came home and told you didn't he? He wasn't trying to hide anything from you. My best friend is a girl, and she is very pretty, but she is my friend, not my girlfriend. We enjoy hanging out with each other, but we never would cross that line. I don't make an issue of it, and my wife knows about it, so I don't see a problem with it. If you have a problem with it, then you should tell him that you don't trust her, and if he takes it as you not trusting him, then you might not have to break up with him, he could break up with you. I hope this helps. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-15 04:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to look deep within yourself and ask why are you with someone that you dont trust. If you cannot trust him not to touch or do anything with another person of the opositte sex then why are you two together??
I had this happen to me and it really comes down to you either trust him or you dont. but, if you find that you cant trust him then brake up. because it will brake up your relationship with him sooner or later and then not only you will get hurt but him aswell.
so if he told you that he didnt do anything what makes you think he did???
2006-11-15 04:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by rainamem 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you I would be jealous also, but if you really trust him, and you think that he is telling you the truth, then you should believe him. Dont break up with him unless you find out that they are flirting or anything like that.
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2006-11-15 04:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's okay to be jealous, but I don't think you should break up with him. The best thing to do is just sit down and talk about how you two feal about each other. But you shouldn't take this so seriously because if he hangs out with her doesn't mean anythings.
2006-11-15 04:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by KingOfQueens 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you should not break up with him because of that if you really trust him then you will belive him and just dont think about it because he is yours and him and her are friends and im just not saying he inncent cause he might like her more than a friend just keep an eye on him and good luck.
2006-11-15 04:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by Riyonna D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you do break up with him i would try to get more evidence and it is ok to be jealous trust me i am a big jealousy monster but get more proof and if you dont have trust in a relationship than what do you have
2006-11-15 04:45:20 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would explain to him that hanging out with this girl makes you feel uncomfortable and that you would rather he didn't hang out with her in a private setting. You shouldn't break up with him as he was being honest about talking with her. If he dosen't listen to your request then maybe you should explore you options.
2006-11-15 04:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by R Dizzle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't think that's a good reason to break with him... unless it's because you lost your trust... but the fact that he told you about it right after it happened means that he has no intention of hiding anything from you... and that he's not guilty of doing something behind your back...
2006-11-15 04:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by monster 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust is the number one thing. If you believe your boyfriend then no. If you dont trust him then you shouldnt be in a relationship anyways.
2006-11-15 04:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by brianlasky5 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋