What do you think of Marriage ? Is it Good or Bad ?

Question

Experienced ones, please answer sincerely....

may be jk wanted to bring out a few practical aspects of Spirituality... thanks for all those answers ... may the the question came up with the following blog post

http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-TwVDjJYwb64uMPZ6szAbBFh4ltcu

Answer 1

Peoples have become so spoiled to having their ways like children demanding a diet of only candy, we have people losing themselves in their egos waggling their sexuality towards one another saying oh will I be happier? I must live to be happier.

Now where are the children in all this? They have no rights? They must be bounced around between parents that cannot control their desire to be free to think with their egos and genitalia?

Marriage is good because it is the business of the humans of this world to build a safe enviornment for the next. If Marriage becomes obsolete you might as well poison your sisters because they will be used for a year or two here and there and then cast aside by a society that is not geared to protect anything but a small sect of females for about ten years if they are lucky and then cast them aside.

Answer 2

Probably it is not that much important how much we have learned thru our thoughts, into the subtle principles of life, its the experience that matters. Probably we can talk at great length of the dialectical aspects of life. The solutions matter more, the implementations matter more, the loyalty with which we move ahead with our ideals matters. may be there is a 50 % chance is there for success. For an always doubting Thomas, Failure is almost 100% certain aspect of life, but then Failure, that's also an aspect that adds to further growth, may be its the Survival All, not the pessimistic Survival of None, is the theory that's running the world today, death and destruction, just one of those bypassing points.

Lord Indra at the finish of three life times, told the Sage Bharadwage, "Oh! dear Rishi, not even a minute drop of the Great Ocean you have learned about the Vedas yet, and probably taking Time as realistic dimension even with infinite cycles of births and deaths, you may not be able to learn THAT, better get into the practice of what you have learned."

Probably the patient waiting with the application of whatever little we have learned, perhaps that's the way to Liberation, the strike of Divine Light .... Until that strike of Divinity, the dialectical aspects of life shall certainly keep us under illusion ... thru that illusion the carving out of lil bit of a flow pattern ... and the natural letting go of that pattern, probably that is the best solution to live this llife ... if the marriage comes in that flow pattern, go ahead with THAT, if it is not there don't do THAT .... if we think too deeply there is no end to THAT and if we do not think and just go ahead, probably nothing is there .... everything that's there in this world are our own visions only, the Divine Visions ....

Answer 3

Marriage can be wonderful! It is a union of two,a commitment to one another.A marriage requires devotion from both to be as one. As the saying goes "united we stand,divided we fall. A marriage with constant conflict will not survive.After a while some tend to take the other for granted thinking their partner will always be there and that they will always love them"it doesn't work like that" Treat each other with the respect and appreciation as when you first met, putting your partner first and above all. When one loses respect for the other "it's over"
An example of taking the other for granted: personal appearance, just because your married doesn't mean you can kiss your mate with last nights dinner on your teeth!And yesterdays sweat on your body! Passion will soon leave the relationship when one begins to slack off in cleanliness! When dressing. Wear your clothes "for your partner"
Women: A man's home is his castle,keep it clean and comfortable for him.
Men : Providing your woman with what she needs to keep your castle clean and comfortable is good but leaving your dirty socks in the hallway is not included as a provision!
Keeping your marriage and relationship alive and well takes a lot of work from both partners."One" cannot do the work for both.Never let the sun set on an argument!

Answer 4

I think it's good overall, but not meant to be all pleasant. I think people go into it expecting all times to be happy, and then they are disappointed so they snatch up the next thing that comes along. Marriage is like any other life-long relationship--you have great times, good times, bad times and awful times.

I do think it is good to have a life-long partnership with somebody to raise children (when applicable) and go through the ups and downs with.

I watched a video on 4 old couples that have stayed married their whole lives, and all said that marriage is very difficult, but that they stuck with it and are really happy that they are together.

Answer 5

It really depends on you and your mate. Some couples, like me and my hubby, truly enjoy being married. If you are truly in love and want to be married, then it can be great! Not easy, but great. A good, beneficial marriage is a two way street: you both have to learn to compromise with each other. Marriage can be a wonderful way to spend your life, but you have to be willing to put effort into it. You and your partner will bicker, fight, rage, etc, then make up passionately :) I say marriage is absolutely fantastic. . . as long as you and your significant other are really in love and don't have unrealistic expectations of each other and your relationship. But you will never know for sure until you try . . . . ;-)

Answer 6

Marriage is living your whole life next to your significant other...
This is as good or bad as it gets...
I can tell you that there are increidibly good moments, bad and warm ones...
But at the end of the day... You are not alone, there is always someone there for you and that is good.
No pink clouds and happy foreverers are truth but is good anyway...

Answer 7

I like it, sometimes you may think the grass is greener on the other side but it's nice to come home to a wife that loves you and a kid who is happy to see you. You can't get that feeling of really being home and being the "man of the house" being single.

Answer 8

hi iam married only get married if u like her or if u get to like her dont have sex within the 1st 3years lol trust me

Answer 9

marriage can be good if you are with someone that you trust without any doubt and you no without a doubt that they will be faithful, if you have any doubts i would stay single.

Answer 10

good for some bad for others