The girl that I want to be with is dragging her feet about what she wants, us to be together or not, but there is another girl that is intrested in me now. Should I wait for the one that I really want or should I just take what I can get at the moment?
2006-11-15 04:37:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't wanna miss out on someone else.... you never know if THEY could be the one.
Don't wait on her.
I think making someone wait is just SELFISH.
Besides, what if she decides that she DOESN'T wanna be with you. Well, you just wasted all that time for NOTHING and you were there just missing out on opportunities with other people...
2006-11-15 04:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The minute you go with the other girl, the 1st girl will want you. If you wait, the 2nd girl will want you. So I guess you should find a 3rd girl, and don't date her, just make the other 2 jealous!
2006-11-15 04:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as shes not going to make you wait forever, then you should definitely give her some time. Let her know that you are willing to be patient for her and if she really does feel the same way about you she wont keep you hanging for too long. Good luck!
2006-11-15 04:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by Zoy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when u say take d one u can get for the moment does that mean ur just dating these girls for the fun of it? i mean if u really have feelings for the one that is draggin her feet then wait for her to know whats up and if not search urself to know if u really have feelings for the available one
2006-11-15 04:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by dupsydups 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the same situation with a guy...he only seems to keep me on hold...i had to wake up and think am i really gonna just settle and be on hold or am i going to be worthy of someone else who's not so hesitant...you also have to follow your heart...if deep down you feel you need to wait then do so...if not i'm sure you'll meet the one who's right for you...good luck in whatever you choose...
2006-11-15 04:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by Glamourous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is to short to wait on her. I would talk to the other girl and see what happens . She may get jealous and see her ways. If not her lost. You are to young to get serious so early anyway have fun.
2006-11-15 04:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by smiley 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whoah.....that is so wrong. WAIT for the girl u like and don't just 'take what ever u have at the moment'.....Don't treat girls like that have respect and u shud be able to wait for the girl u relaly like. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-11-15 04:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I THINK IT REALLY DEPENDS ON WHICH ONE YOU LIKE THE MOST. SAY YOU DONT WAIT AND YOU GO FOR THE GIRL WHO WANTS YOU RIGHT NOW. YOU MAY LIKE HER, BUT SHE WILL NOT ADD UP TO THE ONE YOU REALLY WANT. IF YOU WAIT FOR THE ONE YOU REALLY WANT, THEN YOULL BE IN FOR A BETTER TREAT. UNLESS YOU JUST WANT SOME FROM THE OTHER GIRL.
2006-11-15 04:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by New_Mommy_09 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait on the girl you want , and give her some time ,,if she loves you she'll stop dragging her feet so much
2006-11-15 04:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't waste you time with this chick. Once you move on she'll come running. Go out with the other woman.
2006-11-15 04:42:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jamie H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋