My girlfriend of three years is talking about leaving me. Now we're seniors in high school and we were planning on moving together. I've decided not to go to a college that I wanted to go to just to be with her. Instead I was going to stay here and have and apartment and go to Ivy Tech and work. She says I'm not making her happy. She says I'm not touching her enough and loving her enough. She complains about a lot of things. I am tired of trying to do things for her. I can never do the right things when it comes to her? Can anyone help?
2006-11-15 04:29:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm afraid to say it but you've already answered your own question buddy.
You're tired and, I'm guessing, beginning to resent her for making things too close to "hard work".
Go to college, forget moving in together as if she really wants you she'll make sacrifices to be with you. It's a game of give and take and chances are that if you did stay behind, you'll start to wonder whether you made the wrong decision and maybe resent her for making the wrong choice.
2006-11-15 04:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cut your losses. Even within the National Guard, you'll be required to take coaching where you'll be long past for intervals of time. In the summer season, you'll be able to be long past for 2 weeks. If you need to do an SRP, despite the fact that you do not installation, that takes a couple of days. If a deployment is obligatory, they will ship you. I have an understanding of correct now that you're Rear-D, however you can also no longer keep that means. Even the Guard takes a specified quantity of dedication from each the soldier and his/her mate. Remember, no longer handiest is a soldier within the carrier...the household is just too. Get rid of her and discover your choices.
2016-09-01 12:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what I suggest to you is to tell her how you feel and see if there are still any feelings between the two of you. If she still does have feelings for you see what the two of you could work out in order to make each other happy. If she still decides to leave you and she won't let you change her mind...then sadly I must say let her go....and if at one point she realizes her mistake and still likes you...you guys can hook up together again and give it another chance...., but maybe for now she just needs a little bit of space.
2006-11-15 04:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a shallow, empty relationship and you're a youngster who hasn't won any battles in life. Build your life, become a man and maybe a woman will be drawn to you.
The clue here is that you've planned your life around this girl, instead of being your own man. That's not good for a woman, not what they're looking for and they'll wind up having contempt for you and leaving you.
2006-11-15 04:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The next time she says to you she wants to leave, say go ahead. She's not for you. You should go to college, and then pursue a career. During that time you will find someone else who really cares about you. You don't need the nagging - just let her go without any regrets.
2006-11-15 04:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just imagine living with that for 50 years! Just let it go, its done. Do yourself a favor and go to that college you gave up, do it for your future, your career and for your future wife and kids, you won't regret it. You are young, you deserve more. Don't tie yourself with whiny girls that don't know what they want. Believe me you'll get tired of the complaining someday and you'll leave anyway.
2006-11-15 04:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have two choices my friend. Either try to do more of what she says you don't do, or let her leave. You two are very young and this is common. Women are very emotional and their feelings are hard to explain sometimes, even for them. If you really love her, LISTEN to what she has to say about what you aren't doing enough of and try to change it. If not, you WILL find someone else.
2006-11-15 04:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by DJ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, if she has it in her mind that she doesn't want to be with you, there is nothing you can do or say that will change her mind. Forget about moving in together. Mourn your loss and go to college. You'll regret it if you don't, trust me on that one, especially for someone that doesn't even want to be with you in the first place.
2006-11-15 04:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
unfortunately it sounds like it's over and you need to come to terms with that. It's time to make a fresh start. The right girl is out there! Good luck!
2006-11-15 04:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by num1accent01 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Move on and go to College!
She is suffering from 'burnout', and you are obviously not what she wants anyway. If you have to work that hard on a relationship, it means you are too incompatible!!
2006-11-15 04:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋