my friend says she cant understand me. she always asks me why i always have to ask questions. is it normal for people to ask questions alot? like i always seem to ask why people tell me they love me, why ppl want me to be there friend, why ppl dont want me to be there friend, why does ppl ignore me after they say they wont, why is everyone replying to other ppls emails but not to mine, i could go on and on. but all my questions seem to be like that, around that subject. my friend said it will push ppl away. i dont know why i always ask questions. i just am wondering, when ppl normaly ignore me, then they dont ignore and talk to me...it makes me wondering why..? i want to know why..? help..!?!?
2006-11-15 04:14:19 · 5 answers · asked by davis chick 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You may have issues regarding a low self-esteem. Your questions seem to be your attempt at determining your self-worth by finding out how others feel about you. You seem to have a great need to be validated by others.
You sound like a very sensitive individual. It is how you feel about yourself that is most important, not so much what others think.
2006-11-15 06:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Donna S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It looks like you may have a few issues with security. Your behavior looks like you constantly need assurance. Your friend is really saying "Why are you always questioning my loyalty to you?" Why do you feel the need to always feel secure and why can't you be secure in yourself. You are presenting yourself as a needy person who always needs attention. Honestly some people are put off by that. The questions you are asking are questions you should already know the answers to if you are truly friends with that person. Your friends may feel that if you are constantly questioning your friendship with them then maybe you are not as good as friends as they thought. I think you should stop asking the questions about friendship and just relax and be a friend. True friends accept you for who you are and you shouldn't have to ask why.
2006-11-15 05:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by LaHoma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, those questions are personal and will push people away. You can ask lots of questions, but not those type. I'm not sure why- people are just afraid of answering those type of questions.
2006-11-15 04:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do push people away, because those questions become very tedious. and it seems like you're always looking for compliments, like when you ask why they want to be your friend, it can seem like you are wanting them to list all your qualities.
2006-11-15 04:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by Psychodelic Chicken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are curious that's all nothing wrong with that, if your Friends cant except you get new ones.
2006-11-15 04:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by no_barbiegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋