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2006-11-15 04:08:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, that depends on your personality with his! It's not a matter of love, but a very stong will to let that person become part of your life. Love is something mutually felt between two people. Its really hard to put a thumb on when your in love. Its the time and speration where you can leave your old ways for new ones and losing yourself identity to become one with him; also when you feel Your life does not matter, but that both of your does and the he is your world. Then you feel complete. It took a while for me, but I'm understanding everyday I love him more and more! But its not always easy! I gave everything up to be one with him. Its been 3 and 1/2 years now! We love one another very much. We what to get married, but the time isn't right. We want to do it the right way. Well good luck. P.s. take it one day at a time. Don't rush it. It will come soon enough!
2006-11-15 04:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by deadgrl6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no set time...it depends on each person and their feelings and level of trust. For my wife and I, we started out as friends. We hung out every day and watched movies, talked about everything including previous relationships, family,etc. But we remained just friends for about 2 months before I realized that I had much deeper feelings for her. Luckily she felt the same and we've been together over 5 yrs now and married for 2 1/2 yrs. It was a great way to start a relationship and we are still best friends now that we are married.
2006-11-15 12:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to have someone fall in love with you it takes time and patience. It's not something that happens over night. If someone tells you they love you after the first couple of nights it's defiantly lust not love.
2006-11-15 13:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by plastksweetie07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can make someone fall in love with you. You just have to be yourself and once you find the right person they will fall in love with you on their own because of who you are....
2006-11-15 12:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by josie775 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't get someone to fall in love with you, they either love you , or they don't. Don't wait for him ask him , but him on the spot. I'm a man , and for us man sometime we don't know what we want, until she's gone..
2006-11-15 12:13:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mark K 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well me and my girlfriend both fell in love and told each other we loved each other in two weeks. Maybe less. And it was real and so fulfilling and sweet. I knew I was in love when I would look into her eyes and loose track of time. When I would hold her I would feel like nothing could hurt us. It was awesome.
2006-11-15 12:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by brandon_fargerson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, you can't "get someone" to fall in love with you. It just has to happen naturally. You cannot force someone to love you...no matter how hard you try.
It took me many months to fall in love with my ex-husband. We were together for 8 years....and then fell out of love.
When I met my current boyfriend, it was love at first sight. And trust me, I was never one to believe in such b.s. as love at first sight....but it happened. We have been together for almost a year and I couldn't be happier. He said he fell in love right away as well....it scared us both and we took it as slow as we could...but you can't fight your feelings for someone.
So just let it happen. If it is meant to be, it will happen.
2006-11-15 12:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by Trixie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't "get " someone to fall in love with you. It's either gonna happen or not. Chemistry.
2006-11-15 12:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by dj 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends if they are looking for love and if they are willing to admit it once they have fallen...
My guy told me he loved me 7 months after we started going out.
2006-11-15 12:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by What Do I Know? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
only if they want to fall in love with you. all you can do is be yourself and love yourself enough. if they love you or are in love with you, they will let you know it. you cant put a time limit on love.
2006-11-15 12:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋