2006-11-15 04:04:00 · 15 answers · asked by sandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they give it up!
2006-11-15 04:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as a single mom of 3 children that could be why I don't get many men that are interested but hey I don't care, and this sounds like you like are asking from personal experience go with your feelings but do not get the kids involved untill you are both interested enough to be together.
what difference do kids make anyways?
2006-11-15 13:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by just lil ol' me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she already has kid's there is no fear of a real commitment. After all what guy wants a girl with a bunch of kid's. When the girl asks, "lets get serious?" The guy says, "I'm not ready for a ready made family!" So he gets the sex at no cost. Or fear of commitment.
2006-11-15 12:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they like them as a person, and don't take into consideration that they have kids. Maybe kids don't bother them. Ain't nothing wrong with that. Besides, most females have kids anyway so it would be too hard to get with everyone except moms.
2006-11-15 12:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of ignorance is going on here with some of the answers? If the girl has kids you know that she'll put out? What are you smoking out there?? That has got to be one of the most retarded answers I have read.
2006-11-15 12:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by tonaloha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because those women are good people? maybe because they have a good heart and want to be there for the little tikes. I can't really answer that, but from my own experience, i don't have kids, and i prefer to NOT date guys with them. To me its' a pre-made family, and i personally would prefer to start my own, not just be adopted into someone elses....but for those guys with nerves of steel who can put up with all the drama....i commend you!
2006-11-15 12:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason that some women will only date guys who have kids - some people like drama, and they want their lives to be as complicated and unhappy as possible!
2006-11-15 12:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe cuz he likes the girl duuuhhhhh! Also, there are the moochers who like the fringe benefits of a family with having to commit
2006-11-15 12:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by jkfranklin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well at least the girl with kids puts out
2006-11-15 12:06:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they really like the girl. If she has kids, it doesn't really matter if you like her that much. Obviously, the more mature the guy the easier he finds it.
2006-11-15 12:06:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you're in high school, I will tell you why I did when I was there....because you knew they put out.
Not the morally right answer but as a high schooler who had morals.
2006-11-15 12:06:22 · answer #11 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋