once or twice a day, he is great with my daughter. We have met each other's families once or twice. Same with our friends. I am a full time student and he works in e-commerce. There is an 8 year age difference between us. He buys me presents on all the holidays and sometimes just to make me smile. Here is the problem. He has never said "I love you." I do not know if it is because I slept with him on the first date or what. Does anyone think that based on all the info that I am more to him than a "f*** buddy?" Does anyone think that we have potential? Do you think he loves me based on actions and not words? I just am so confused!
2006-11-15 03:58:06 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are definately more than just a bed buddy. He wouldn't invest time into your family and other aspects of your life if you didn't mean something to him. Maybe you should ask him if there is potential there, he may not want to get married or take it any further than this. Don't put pressue on him though, but after three years I think you have a right to know what direction he would be interested in taking the relationship.
2006-11-15 04:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kaytee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you have been together for 3yrs, he's bound to love you a little. He may not be IN love with you, and that's the difference. The IN love gives you that warm, tickly stomach feeling and cannot stop looking at each other and touchy all the time. But if you need to hear the "L" word, I would ask him. If he says NO, then whatcha gonna do then. I told my girl friend that I did not love her as much as she loves me. It made her sad and said I was just a f*** buddy too; but she got over it after awhile. We still see each other and have a good time. The bottom line is, if you are in love and he is not, then it ain't gonna work eventually.
2006-11-15 12:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever stop and think tht maybe he just has a hard time expressing his feelings? Maybe he loves you but hes afraid to say it. If you talk every day, have met each others families, and he likes your kid, it sounds to me like he really cares for you!
2006-11-15 12:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men have a hard time saying it so they would rather show it. Have you said it to him? Just ask him where your relationship is going. It's been 3 years you deserve that much!
2006-11-15 12:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by party_pam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people "say" I love you with what they do. Maybe that is what he is doing showing you he loves you with gifts and stuff. Some guys just find it hard to say I love you. It could be he is afraid he might mess up what you two have.
Alex
2006-11-15 12:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by Osiris2067 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to ask him in a sensitive way he could understand. I would ask him out and hit the pressure mode to find out the real guy behind his mask.
2006-11-15 12:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it's time to sit down and talk about your relationship and where you're going with it. Part of that talk should be telling him what your needs are, including that you'd like to hear him tell you that he loves you, if he does.
Good luck...
2006-11-15 12:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by Celtic Rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u just come out and ask him how he feels about u. there is nothing wrong w/being honst. again life is to short. and u dont want your daughter getting used to him just to see him leave once he gets tired of u
2006-11-15 12:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by dounut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with being a f*** buddy?
2006-11-15 12:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋